I met this guy when I went on a TV show recently and after that met him twice more on the same show. We sat next to each other all three times and went out for coffee but I didn't give him my number. We were supposed to meet up a few weeks ago which we arranged, but I couldn't make it and as I don't have his number, I couldn't let him know. Haven't seen him for a while but I can't stop thinking about him. I can get in contact with him through a friend, but I don't know if I want them to know I like him. Also, he's totally not my usual type. I don't know why I can't stop thinking about him! Should I just go for it? I don't want to hunt him down and look desperate. He might not even think of me in that way?
2007-03-29 12:40:05 · 13 answers · asked by Grizzly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since he seems to stay in your mind and you constantly think about him you need to ask yourself what is it about him that makes you constantly think about him. In other words, why is he constantly on your mind? Do you wish you were with him? Do you want to be with him? If so, why do you want to be with him? What is it about him that attracts you to him? Is he a nice guy and a guy who is a gentleman? Do you think he wants to be with you even though it seems he has made no overture to contact you? Wonder why he makes no attempt to contact you? Do you think you have questions you want to ask him? If so, contact him and see if you can arrange to meet him somewhere and talk to him and ask him these questions. Is your heart telling you something or is it all in your mind? Think about it.
2007-03-29 12:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is a reason you keep thinking about this guy. if you can get a hold of him through a friend then i would do it. just say you need his number to find out something about the show you don't need to tell your mutual friend that you like him. and then just call him up and apologize for not being able to make it to meet him that one day, family emergency, etc. and then arrange to meet up with him. if he wants to meet up with you and feels the same way then he will. if not at least you know you tried and you won't keep thinking about maybe he liked you or maybe it would have worked out.
2007-03-29 19:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U don't need to be crazy, head over hill over a man who don't even know u exist. the law says 'He who finds a wife' and not she who finds a husband. If a man sees and like you, he will definitely come looking for you, remember, 'all good things comes to those who wait. Just be still, and never trow yourself at any man, it is dangerous.Your true love is on his way to your heart.
Good luck
2007-03-29 20:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by winerest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I believe you should do is ask your friend for his number and don't tell them the real reason why and then text or call or whatever and just tell him straight up whats going on.
2007-03-29 19:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by princess_bee_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. It is better than sitting around wonder about him forever, sometimes it is good that he is not your usual type. He might have something your missing in other guys. Good luck
2007-03-29 19:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sara Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you reallly like him the i'd get the digits from ur friend and call him up, apologize for ditching last time (that might have scared him away) see if he wants to hang out soon and take it from there
2007-03-29 19:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by blahblah123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask your friend casually that you need to contact him about the show,
2007-03-29 19:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, go for it. Just be real. Forget what people think..........if you're feeling it, just do it, like the Nike Commercial.
2007-03-29 19:44:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it,so what if your friend knows andso what if he aint your usual type he obviously has something that attracted you to him,go girl
2007-03-30 04:39:04 · answer #9 · answered by donna b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't hurt for you to get in touch with him. Then you can decide what else you want to do.
2007-03-29 19:44:53 · answer #10 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋