So me and my bf were at some show the other night when this big manly girl starts messing with my bf..like calling him names and even pushing him..me and my bf were so confused because he or i did nothing to this woman, anyways she starts pushing him! We were shocked, but my bf being the gentleman that he is just laughed and walked away, she followed him and smacked him in the face calling him a "p*ssy" he just looked at her for a few seconds and said "you neeed some ******* help you phycho *****" and got in the car...How would you have reacted to this? Should I have done soemthing? He was shocked the whole night tryingg to think if he did somethig to her she took the wrong way..but he didnt.
PS he's 6'3" and in good shape
2007-03-29 12:00:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She was just a musclely man-like woman, but a def a woman
2007-03-29 12:07:00 · update #1
they never dated....trust me! this girl was not his type at all
2007-03-29 12:10:31 · update #2
That sounds like what I would have done
2007-03-29 12:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by rudaxter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably something this big girl does to entertain herself. I think your bf handled it just right. He told her bluntly that she needed help, but he didn't lay a hand on her. If he had, someone probably would have called the police on him. Sometimes, the greater strength is to walk away from the fight.
Emotionally, he should let the situation go. She obviously is mentally disturbed and there is nothing he could have done differently to keep her from acting as she did. He is not responsible for her feelings or actions.
2007-03-29 19:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well this lady was obviously under the influence of controlled substances... so i would say that it was probably a good idea that you both did not do anything else to get her all riled up. If she is as manly and huge as you are making her out to be, you guys, could have gotten into some serrious trouble. BUT if you boyfriend starts acting all weird and asking you why you didn't jump in or whatever I would say that that would be a problem that you should be worrying about, but if he doesn't say anything like that then you're all good! =]
2007-03-29 19:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by lost 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoa, that's quite the story! if some one started doing all that to my bf, i would probably keep outta it, but if it got really bad, i would get all up in her face (even if she was manlier and stronger and bigger and meaner) and i would set her straight. i would also consider telling an authority firgure (a cop) if there were any.
i think you & your bf did the right thing. plus, the chances of you seeing her again are about none.
2007-03-29 19:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by SARB3AR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your BF was very smart to walk away. It takes a MAN to ignore a nutcase, and not be drawn into a dog-fight with some idiot.
2007-03-29 19:04:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your BF did exactly the right thing. Sounds like she was looking for a fight, and probably would have pressed charges if he did react badly.
2007-03-29 19:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by JeffyB 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Walking away was exactly the right thing to do. You had no way of knowing if she was high on something or carrying a weapon somewhere.
2007-03-29 19:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by Barry S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have gotten the tire iron out & asked the b*tch if she really wanted some & then Id have given it to her. Of course Im someone who isnt afraid to go to jail. Its like they say, everyone ends up meeting their match, so when someone asks for it, I like to give it to them!
2007-03-29 19:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by plainfieldcletusblue 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I would have told her I was going to file a complaint against her and if she did it again she could have dinner at the local jail.
2007-03-29 19:05:42 · answer #9 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women are just plain stupid. Tell your bf to sleep over it and forget it from then on.
2007-03-29 19:04:50 · answer #10 · answered by daniella 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he did the right thing. I mean if you guys didnt do anything to that women..then you okay. Just ask him if he actaully didnt know her..cuz he might have dated her or something you know?
2007-03-29 19:06:48 · answer #11 · answered by dewthedude7 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋