Okay there is this hot Russian guy, who is sweet and cares so much about my well being, he asked me if I would like to go out on a date with him, but gave me the option of having one of my aunts accompining us... all of my friends say go for it. He's 20 and I'm 14... should I go for it.... if I do I'm going with my aunt there as well. I don't know what to do!!
2007-03-29 11:14:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, I've decided, I'm not going.... no matter how nice he is, thank you all, you all may have gotten us both out of major trouble!!!
2007-03-29 11:25:30 · update #1
Think of it like this. A man who is 20 should have the interest of a woman who has more to offer him. Not that you aren't a great girl, but you are still technically a child. You can't vote or go to clubs or drink or anything. Your still in high school. Ask you self why a guy is age can't get a girl closer to his own age. I mean would you date an 8 year old?
2007-03-29 11:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I say that's a no go. Any 20 year old that interest in a 14 year old has some underlying issue such as being a freak. Your 14. Your a child. And as far as your aunt going with you anyone that lets a 14 year old go out with a 20 year old is irresponsible. Do you not watch the news? This guys sounds a little obsessive to me and that what will get you on the front page under the heading "CHILD FOUND RAPED AND BEATING TO DEATH IN A DITCH" Use your brain!!
2007-03-29 18:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by mikki b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your too young for him maybe if you were 20 and he was 26 it would make more sense. Maybe Im wrong he might just want to take you out so that he can get close to your aunt. If thats not the case then it doesnt make sense to me that a 20yr old would be attracted to a 14 yrs old. sweety think for a second nothing good can come out of all this your a baby still you need to focus on other things like school, sports, im not trying to be mean to you but your too yooung to be thinking about relationships especially with guys older then you.
2007-03-29 18:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO it's not right. He is too old for you and this is borderline illegal. A 20 year old man only wants sex from you and nothing more, he isn't looking for a wife. He is offering to take your aunt only to make you think he is a good guy. The next date will be just the two of you and the pressure will start for sex.
This is a predator, don't have anything to do with him.
2007-03-29 18:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's too old for you. No decent, respectable 20 year old would want to date a 14 year old, no matter how mature she is. That's not right. If he really likes you, he can wait until you're at least 16, if not 18.
Either he's a pervert, or he secretly likes your aunt and is using you to get to her.
2007-03-29 18:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, he's 20 and you're 14? You realize this isn't exactly legal, right? Chances are your aunt won't allow you to go. If she does, she isn't a smart woman. A 20 year old isn't looking at a 14 year old for lovely conversation.
Anyone here who thinks a 20 year old courting a 14 year old is okay needs to go for a psyche evaluation.
2007-03-29 18:20:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No way you are to young 14 is to young to go out with a 20 yr
your aunt cant be around all the time. and it is against the law.
2007-03-29 18:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really would not go. If you were 16, I may say yes, but you are only 14, I really think that he is crossing the line here. Actually, it is against the law. Go out with guys your age and have fun. Don't grow up too fast. ENJOY YOUR YOUTH!!!! If he cared about your well being he would want you to be spending time with people your age! Really think about it,. This man has a hidden agenda.
2007-03-29 18:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by pittgradgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's to old for you. Maybe in 3 or 4 years you might be ready to date him. He should not be even thinking about dating a 14 year old.
2007-03-29 18:19:25 · answer #9 · answered by Teslajuliet 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The question is why would he want to date a 14 year old?I'm not saying there's something wrong with you.No.You shouldn't go.You are too young to date anyone,especially an adult.You are a child.
2007-03-29 18:21:12 · answer #10 · answered by mosrider2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋