Being nice, always being there for her, being thoughtful, never misses her birthdays, being close to her and her family.... doing all this... and she not saying and react in a negative way. Is that a good sign? Can she read from my actions or she just too blind to see and treat me only as a good friend? Your feedbacks please.
2007-03-29 11:08:39 · 9 answers · asked by BuddyShy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In your case your actions do speak but they are saying to her "you have all the time in the world". Be her friend.. but speak up if you want more.. and if she says no.. you may try actions to pursuede her gently, if you are turned down still, let it go..
And please from experience don't have an attitude about the rejection.. we all have rejection and attitude just puts up walls of defense, for future encounters.
2007-03-29 11:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your being "too" nice. A woman needs to know that a man can be aggressive (not physically). Also your being there for her all the time, even with her family, she might feel a little suffocated...like your putting on too much pressure. I'm sure if your not dating anyone, she knows your interested. If she doesn't bite, then that's her nice way of saying...let's stay friends. After all, what woman doesn't want a good man?
2007-03-29 11:14:47 · answer #2 · answered by Denise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you never tell her you have deep feelings for her how will she ever know? Take that giant leap and get on with it. Do this only if you are also prepared for her to say sorry...just friends is the best I can do. If you do get together and it does not end well you will have to remove yourself from something that has become a large part of your life. Heck...just sit her down and have a talk about what ifs!
2007-03-29 11:17:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Most women don't appreciate actions. They say they do, but are only lying to you and themselves. They just about never notice anything nice a guy does for them.
She will think of you as just a Friend forever
2007-03-29 11:14:35 · answer #4 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would she react in a negative way when you go around bending backwards to please her?! I think she is well aware that you like her and if she liked you back she would have done something about it. If you like her that much you need to tell her and ask her out, that way you won't need to keep doing these things hoping she'll get the message.
2007-03-29 11:16:18 · answer #5 · answered by Leyla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that she's just not that into you. Just because you have a crush doesn't mean it has to be returned. It doesn't always work out, and then you move on. More fish in the ocean, you know.
2007-03-29 11:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your age and other factors as well. She might have always seen you as a good friend. Try flirting with her a little bit. Sometimes you just have to be blunt about it.
2007-03-29 11:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by Julia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with that actions speak louder than words. but girls can be so blind. like my best friend used to like me and i secretly did too. and i guess i've always known he liked me too but was too scared to lose him after i dated him. but now, he's with someone else. and it just breaks my heart... soo why dont you tell her? dont end up looking back and regret like me :(
good luck
2007-03-29 11:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by LEANNE. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might be in the dreaded "friend zone" Its hard to break free from this. Do some low level flirting (touch her arm when talking, Stand closer then normal talking distance when talking to her) and see how it goes from there
2007-03-29 11:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋