ok i know ive asked a couple of these kind of questions and most people told me to wait for the Mr.right!! but c the problem is no guy is into me!! also the guy i sorta had a crush on asked my friend out !! so idk any more and it sucks to!! i know it sounds deperate but if your reply please dont say im youngcuz im only a freshman!! and it will come to me !!cuz iv waited n nuthing has happened!so please im in nedd of some sort os help/advice! thanks
2007-03-29 10:54:51 · 5 answers · asked by hopein 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By not looking.
First of all, you are way too young to even be THINKING about Mr. Right. You should really start worrying about that when you're in your 30s...
You'll never find love if you're looking for it. Trust me. It happened to me. He was right under my nose the entire time.
God has a plan for you. He will bring you the right one in His time. Just have faith in Him.
2007-03-29 10:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, men are not too smart so don't blame yourself I am sure Mr. Right will come along and you are very young- don't worry you have plenty of time!! But, here are some tips:
1. Accentuate your strengths (physical & personality)- do you have nice eyes?, are you super smart? let these things be known a little bit more
2. Flirt
3. Guys like a chase- pretend as if you have lots of opportunities- even if you don't
4. Hold out on the physical stuff for a long time, no matter how much u like them!
5. Don't try too hard or it will backfire
6. Have fun
Good luck.
2007-03-29 11:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by Ati S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No guarantee of results on this, but I would suggest the best way to start is to stop actively looking to find a boyfriend.
No matter who you are, when you have a quest such as this, it shows in your attitude, your speech, your body language, and, perhaps, in your body scent as well.
Desperation is somehow detectable, and many people, both guys and girls, tend to avoid it.
Suitable boys may come by, but be put off by something they see in your actions, dress or demeanor, or because they sense your desperation and have personal reasons for avoiding you.
An example might be:
Suitable guys may not like to invite comments from their friends about their dating someone those friends consider desperate. It may not be fair, but it is very real.
Others, who are of lesser personal value, may wish to take advantage of it, and you, and ultimately hurt you.
Being secure in yourself is good for you, and seeing and meeting someone who is secure in herself is something that guys find desirable.
You may have to be patient a while, but if you send out the right signals, instead of the wrong ones, you will surely get the positive attention you seek.
2007-03-29 11:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by Ef Ervescence 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all i can say is don't look for them they will come to you. Just be yourself at all times and change for no one. I went through it too. I'm currently a junior and that year i thought no one was in to me . After i stop trying so hard to get somone they came to me. And i have been dating the same guy since then. so just wait your time will come. And don't let anyone take advantage of you. You'll know when you've met your match.
2007-03-29 11:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a ugly boy like you!
2007-03-29 10:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Jodie♥ 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋