Do u think he is trying to tell me that he doesnt want me anymore?

Question

I speak to my boyfriend daily on the phone but we cant meet coz my parents wont allow me.he came online 3 days ago and asked me if i still want him.then the day after that he stopped callin me and he doesnt give me missed calls anymore and since that day we talked only once and he talk to me as if i was his friend...i dunno whats going on with him.i tried asking him he says there is nothing.Now he stopped calling,smsing and even missed calling me.what do u think is going on and is he trying to tell me that he doesnt want meanymore.what am i suppose to do or how am i suppose to react?

Answer 1

He is probably trying to let you go slowly. Just ask him about it and don't let him see you cry or hear you cry if he does end it. When he ends it play it cool and say something like "well if thats what you want then thats okay with me." even though really its killing you inside. =]

Answer 2

So if you only talk on the phone what is the point of having a relationship. Just so you know, not that anyone wants to admit it, parents are almost ALWAYS right about this sort of thing. They just have your best interest at heart so don't be angry at them for caring. As far as your "boyfriend" is concerned, you have the right to be upset, that's just a given. But wouldn't be more fun to actually have a boyfriend you can see and go on dates with? You have to decide whats best for yourself and this guy is really worth all this apparent wasted effort.

Answer 3

Your lacking communication. Yeah I think hes losing interest in you. In a relationship always remember it need TRUST & Communication. So this one seems like its going down hill, but dont get me wrong you can do something about it. Call him or send him email let him know you guys need to talk about your relationship. Then when you have him on the phone express your feeling, your wants, your needs, then ask him what he thinks could make the relationship better. Once all is said WORK ON IT. Good Luck...If this one goes down the drain remember my advise for the next one...

Answer 4

Maybe he's bummed because your parents won't let you see him. I had a girl like that, and it was awful. You can't get close to each other just by talking on the phone a few times a week. Have you been calling him, texting him, etc...? Let him know he's still wanted. If he ignores you, at least you tried, which is more than he did.

Answer 5

First ask yourself if you want to be in that relationship then ask him. It would be kind of hard to have a relationship when you can't see each other in person though. Maybe it wasn't meant to be.

Answer 6

He is moving on because you are too much effort for too little return.

You can't give him what he wants, it's only fair that he move on to someone that will. Everyone deserves the right to make themselves happy, just like he does. You are not right for him, time for you to move on too.

Answer 7

maybe he's playing it safe and respecting your parent's wishes. So it's up to you to sit down with your parents and try to make them understand that you really like him.. by the way is he older and if he is how much older cause that makes a difference.

Answer 8

He probably met another girl and this is the easiest way for him to slip out of it with you. Ask some of your friends, and even some of his

Answer 9

He probably doesn't want a long distance relationship and is frustrated with the fact that he can't see you face-to-face.

Answer 10

Forget the loser. Make him sorry by being beautiful and unobtainable.