Theres just some thing going on that I don't like. He has this "friend", Hillery. Ok so one day I went on his computer to check my myspace, and before I logged in, therewas her name in the log in section, so I knew that she was at his hose. I than asked him who she was and he told me, "just a friend", I asked him where they met, and he replied, "through some friends". So later oon that night I was getting ready to take a shower in him bathroom, and I saw a string of hair on one of his wash scrubs, it was medium length and curly..he has locks mind you, and his hair texture is different than what I found, but my hair is long and curly, but a different texture that what I found as well...now it could have been mine, but I don't think it was...what do you think? Also my boyfriend just canceled his myspace accout, which is odd because it was around the same time that I canged his staus on myspace from "single", to "in a relationship"..What sould I think, is he cheating on me w/ Hillery
2007-03-29 10:26:19 · 33 answers · asked by michelle w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just so you know for the future....its usually right after you start to "love and care" for them that they cheat on you...hmmmmm
2007-03-29 10:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by LoneStarLou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be cheating with anyone may not be Hillery. I would just walk away if I ever sense anything makes me feel not right. But I have a really great gut feelings and I'm always right, so I'm not sure about yours
2007-03-29 10:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the first thing I thought of after reading your paragraph was: "Does he only have one bathroom in his place?" If so, then finding her hair in his bathroom doesn't mean anything. A girl's gotta pee, right? If he has more than one, then I would be a little suspicious.
I would just ask him outright. There's no point in worrying over the "what ifs". If you trust him and he says that he's not, then there you go. If you don't trust him and he says that he's not, then you have a big decision on your hands.
2007-03-29 10:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by olomaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
err thats a pretty serious accusition...but i would look for something more concrete than some hair in the shower and some myspace BS. maybe he cancled myspace because its lame and people should need a website to know who their friends are?
also try not to be too jealous. i know its hard, but everyone needs/wants friends of the other sex aside from their boy/girlfriend. try to respect that.
friends usually go to each others houses....and most people meet friends through other friends...so nothing really seems out of place.
look for something more concrete
2007-03-29 10:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hair could have been from anyone. But as far as the girl goes I think if he had anything to hide he wouldnt have told you who she was, and how he met her. I think you should just lay low for a while and see what happens, and if you still feel the same way bout it then maybe u guys should call it quites. and let me say this.. if you cant trust him your wasting your time and his.
Good luck though
2007-03-29 10:34:08 · answer #5 · answered by Stacey22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find this Hillary and see if she has curly hair. Then you should talk to her and see things from her point of view before you make any descisions. Try to resolve this without over reacting. If he is cheating on you, you should find out the truth and dump him. However, what if he didn't? You would have waisted all this energy for nothing, and felt bad for over reacting.
2007-03-29 10:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by be my Angel :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let's see here, I had a boyfriend, he has a picture of a girl and him kissing while were still on. he changed all his password for me not to access his accoutn anymore, and lastly i saw a letter of a girl with "iloveyou too stuff". apparently he's cheating right? But he never admitted it. Same with you. I guess he is, but he wont admit it ofcourse. Either he doesn't want to end up as loser or he's just waiting for you to break the relationship up. But the thing is, if he's ,making you happy, then it's your choice.
2007-03-29 10:32:34 · answer #7 · answered by mushy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hair could have been from anyone, that by itself isn't proof of anything.
Why is it OK for women to have guy friends but not men? The hypocrisy of women in general on this issue is huge.
2007-03-29 10:30:16 · answer #8 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you look for dishonesty in a relationship, you will see it everywhere you turn.
He didnt hide this person from you, and you seem a little insecure, nothing personal, but you need to just relax, dont let what this COULD be, or what that MIGHT mean bother you, if you trust him, then trust him to stay faithful.
2007-03-29 10:29:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I think is there is a good chance he is, but I wouldn't brake up wit em just yet, I would watch for a few days and see what happends, and if he brakes up with u any time aoon, or at all even don't let it bother u, or if i does, son't show it. And if u do brake up wit em, just move on, it might be hard, but thats just life. (~_^)
2007-03-29 10:32:35 · answer #10 · answered by vipto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got locks,and you found medium sized ,curly hair of a different texture.?hmmmm,maybe you just found his pubes in the drain.????
2007-03-29 10:39:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋