Sometimes I hear that guys really don't like being asked out. I was wondering if its true. And if it is please tell me why!
2007-03-29 10:17:49 · 13 answers · asked by L 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Heck no it's not true, We guys are scared of you girls. And are scared of being turned down!! So heck yeah we like being asked out it takes the stress off us!
2007-03-29 10:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by the_answer_man 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time, we like getting asked out. It relieves the pressure of rejection, and makes the date more relaxed because, if the girl asks you out, she must like you.
One piece of advice: guys like the chase. Let's say a guy sees a drop dead gorgeous woman. He is really intrigued and wants desperately to ask her out. However, the woman rushes up to him and starts talking a mile a minute and trying to ingratiate herself in a not too subtle way, that woman has lost lots of points. She is no longer some unattainable goddess, just a girl desperate to be with you.
So, don't be aloof, but don't throw yourself at him either.
2007-03-29 17:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by pachl@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont mind being asked out. But i'm usually not capable of accepting the date, unfortunately.
2007-03-29 17:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use caution, but proceed.
overall, i get a little insecure and think that the girl may be asking out ALOT of guys.
however, i am currently with a girl that aggressively pursued me. i now know that she just really digs me...
2007-03-29 17:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by Scott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like for a girl to ask me out because it makes me feel good about myself
2007-03-29 17:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by kerry p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl ask me out, I would think I'm cute hahaha!
2007-03-29 17:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by kik0ish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind, personally I WANT to be asked out, because I am too shy to do it myself
2007-03-29 17:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by MasterMunchie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as the girl doesnt make a big deal of it, it woud be great because i am terrible at asking girls out
2007-03-29 17:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by acta non verba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is a man's duty to ask the girl
2007-03-29 17:20:42 · answer #9 · answered by D-mac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its good for the ego - ask away girl
2007-03-29 17:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by imneiflim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋