my girlfriend and I have been dating for awhile(3 months) and have kissed but Im still afraid to hug or put my arm around her while walking in the school hallways. I think its because I dont want her to think im a perv or just in our relationship for physical benefits. I just want to show her that I love her w/o using words.
also, are there any other good ways to show her I love her?
2007-03-29 10:05:27 · 11 answers · asked by sylux 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being attentive and affectionate don't make one out to be a pervert. It shows you care and you want to be with that person. She might even be thinking "what's the deal, no affection or anything"....I wouldn't ask because you put her on the spot etc...My significant other was attentive and affectionate and it was several months before we were intimate together. We dont have to be "intimate" to show we care about each other, you know? Put your arm around her, hold her hand, that type of thing. Girls/women really think that's nice =)
2007-03-29 10:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to show her is to tell her every day. You show your love in the little things you do for her, with her, etc. It doesn't mean u don't love her if you're not comfy with "PDA".
Giving someone a hug, a really wonderful loving embrace doesn't mean you're a perv. It shows you're affectionate. So hug her damn-it!! j/k :)
2007-03-29 10:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by â??Markâ?? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually, people hug or hold each other BEFORE they kiss. So that sounds a little weird to me. Buy her a flower for no reason. Oh yeah, and hold hands of course. Like the other pplz say.
2007-03-29 10:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
atleast your name is pansy....
i mean seriously, you are dating the girl, she wants you to do those small things. YOU ARE GOING TO LOSE HER IF YOU DONT START SHOWING AFFECTION. Put your arm around her, hold her hand. Give her hugs when you have to go to a different class.
2007-03-29 10:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by KGisbetterthanDuncan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 3 months, I really doubt she's gonna think you're a pervert just for putting your arm around her..after 3 months my boyfriend was already grabbing my butt and I didn't mind.. :)
2007-03-29 10:10:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me. Hold her hand. It is the simplest wan a man can show his affection. She will love it.
2007-03-29 10:09:39 · answer #6 · answered by ~Happy~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U don't love her, and please don't try to prove anything. Girls get turned off by guys who try to prove their love. Be a big boy and act like a man.
2007-03-29 10:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by cat lyn 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well you should try it in private and if she is finne with it then she wil be fine with it in school
2007-03-29 10:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by shortysherry46 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a total dork.
2007-03-29 10:09:02 · answer #9 · answered by PROUD TO BE A LIBERAL TEEN! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i would change you profile name
2007-03-29 10:08:53 · answer #10 · answered by acta non verba 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋