I am a single mother who is trying to get back onto the dating scene. I've tried the clubs, online dating, going to church, and I have even tried attending many of my friends parties to find a decent man and I haven't had any luck. Every man I meet turns out to be the opposite of what I expected. I am so tired of running into scrubs help please!!!
2007-03-29 05:40:47 · 43 answers · asked by diva22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honestly chic there isnt many about dont try to hard to meet that speciqal some1 coz belive me there is something sooooooo special about most of them hahaha im in the same position as yrself just have fun and be carefull babes let him find you good luck xxx
2007-03-29 05:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by robertboozychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good single man won't be at a club or some sleezy party. Do This... invision the type of man you want, pray and tell God that's the type of man you want and then stop looking, but you can start preparing yourself, will the type of man you want be at some stupid, meaningless club, or will he be in the gym in the afternoons, or some nice restaurant for lunch. Good men like to pursue, A good man already has set what kind of woman would be right for him and he won't settle for less. Good men are willing to seek out that good woman that they long for... the bible even says a man that findeth a wife findeth a good thing, not a woman you stalks and finds and man finds a good thing.. and plus we live in a different world now enjoy being single, enjoy your children. And ask yourself: Am I the type of woman a really Good Man could be seen with, Do I come off as too desperate, Are my priorities in check or do I need to work on myself.? Hope to hear from you soon
2007-03-29 05:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by Khalil 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look to the everyday hard working man. He is often overlooked. He might be driving a delivery truck, a garbage truck or a bus. He may be a yard man or a meter reader. Women don't usually see these men. They are always looking for the player in the nice car. Look for a man with a blue collar job that you find attractive. These fellas often have an honesty and a sincerity that the clean dude might not have.
2007-03-29 05:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by mr_blackfish1999 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok single mother you are looking for a DECENT man, yeah im sure he is at the club and by morning the same dude is online dating for a quick hookup. be patient dont get in trouble let him find you. however i highly recommend a bookstore like borders or barnes & noble. you should be able to find some one who can talk about anything and everything and build from there.
2007-03-29 05:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by Tony M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One way to find a decent man is to move (different state/abroad maybe?). Go fish where there are rich environment not in poluted streams. The second and best bet is to be patient. Instead of looking for a decent man--just be the PRIZE (with open arms) and he will find you!
2007-03-29 06:22:45 · answer #5 · answered by dat_oat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking, act like you already have a man, and see how many start coming out of the woodworks!. Men have a sensor that lets them know when women are on the manhunt, and they shy away from them. Act self assured, sated, and satisfied with yourself. Wear a smile that tells all "I have a secret", and look mysterious. Trust me, it works like a charm. Guys will think you are taken, thus safe to flirt with. And the bar/church/party thing?? nah, they will think you are desperate.
2007-03-29 05:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by TAINA1771 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right! And, it sounds like you have tried all the right places.
What I would do now is stop looking for a little bit, and just enjoy your own interests and maybe magically the man of your dreams will appear. It seems that when you aren't looking, that's when they all come around.
Good luck.
2007-03-29 05:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by ginger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you looking for a younger or older man. Also how many kids do you have. Just when you meet a guy talk to them and then tell them your situation and if they like you they will stay and if they don't then they will leave but i would just keep looking and eventually a nice decent sweet guy will come along and sweep you off your feet. How old are you.
2007-03-29 05:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by William P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on where you live, there are now meetup groups specializing in particular areas of interest such as hiking, movies, art, etc. There are even meetup singles group where they have get togethers, dances, nights out so that people can meet and potentially find a love partner. I would look online for meetup groups in your area. You may find a great guy who is looking for the same things as you. www.meetup.com
2007-03-29 05:45:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't take this the wrong way but, if there is something wrong with every man you meet, maybe they aren't the problem. I have found that people go for looks, then make assumptions on that persons personality. We want people to fit our ideas of the perfect person and we get disappointed when they don't measure up to our fantasies. Don't rush it. Spend time at places of interest to you. When you meet some one, don't try to fit them into a mold. You wouldn't want some one to do that to you nor your children.
2007-03-29 05:51:51 · answer #10 · answered by redskins4jsp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋