how would you feel , if you've heard the ex who recently dumped you, is gonna get married ?

Question

how would you deal with that ?

Answer 1

I'd feel pity for them, if it was recent then they obviously haven't had time to recover from your relationship and they are jumping in head first into a new relationship prematurely. It can only end up withe them having a big struggle as they try to process all the baggage from your relationship and try to deal with the demands of a new marriage. Also I think she is in denial, getting married so soon is the equivalent of sticking your fingers in your ears and saying 'la-la-la', it won't help you progress, it just means bigger problems later on when all those unaddressed issues surface.

You are so much better off than her, you should keep as much space as possible and don't let her foolish actions affect your life. Good luck.

Answer 2

I would feel angry and betrayed and hurt and humiliated. I would also have to face the fact that I was being cheated on.

That's a lot to deal with. I know I would cry and plot revenge that I would never follow through with.

I've been in this situation. Time heals all wounds, but sometimes time moves too slow.

Just keep busy and go find yourself someone new. Happiness is the best revenge. Good luck.

Answer 3

It would be hard to accept the fact that your ex is getting married to someone else after recently dumping you. But then on the other hand, you have to look at the whole picture and decide... if he dumped you recently and he's about to get married, do you think he may have already been with her while he was with you?

Answer 4

I went through that 10 years ago when i was 19 yrs old.. I was heartbroken, the worst feeling in the world. I just couldnt imagine how he found it so easy to move on and get engaged with another girl..... Nothing i could do or say made me feel better, my chest and stomach hurt for days, the anxiety and hurt was unbearable but i tried to keep busy and work extra hours to keep me occupied!.... Time heals everything so don't worry- Things happen for a reason

Answer 5

I'd move on and just think that it won't last long anyways. Did she recently dump you? She was probably having an affair while you two were together that's why she dumped you so she could get married. She isn't worth it. Just move on and enjoy being single.

Answer 6

That sucks so bad. I just recently found out that my ex who I was with for 3 yrs got this one girl pregant who was bothering him when we were together. i was so hurt.. but realized that they are not worth it. So just move on, I know it hurts cuz I still think about it and get pissed off. But, what can we do.... just shows that they really didn't give a **** about us and we are better off without them.

Move on and find you a man that will want to marry you and make you happy! I finally did and have never felt better!

Answer 7

I'd feel sorry for the person the ex is now marrying. And I'd count my blessings that I did not get stuck with a partner like the ex who was not capable of reciprocating my feelings.

Answer 8

OH MY GOD !!!! I sware I just went through that (still going thru it) My ex FIANCE, who broke up with me in September (1 month before we were due to get married) just recently got engaged to some chick he used to mess with when he was about 15 or 16, but anyway he lives in another state now. He knew I found out from his mother and he would not callme because he knew I was going to flip out on him, so I called him finally just a week or so ago. And I talked about it calmly with him, like what are you doing? and why? He really didn't have an answer he says he just made a stupid decision. He didn't even pay for her ring, his sheisty a** cousin did. (she's friends with the girl) BUT snyway my story ends with him not marrying her, instead we are working on our relationship. We still love each other we just had some issues. Not to say that I trust him 100 percent but it's possible he can fix that if he tries. As for you I would say talk to your ex and see what's on their mind? Are you guys still able to talk to one another? Maybe the ex is just trying to say something without saying something. Maybe it's not true, if you say it's what you heard. If it's true and they are getting married then just wish them luck, obviously that is not the one for you. You have to move on either way. If it's meant for you guys to work it out then it will happen evenif it's the day before the "supposed wedding". Good luck

Answer 9

You know, I was in this situation once. I felt shocked, angry and surprised...then relieved. It was like insult to injury after seeing him for so long and then have him jump right into a marriage. I wondered - how could he do that? Know so soon that he wanted to married to her. Small wonder that it did not last...but NO, I'M NOT BITTER. LOL. Seriously, I did realize later that he actually did me a favor. I had been settling and I can and have done much much better. So will you.

Answer 10

Oh I've had this happen to me. It SUCKS.

You just have to pick yourself up and move on as best you can. Spend quality time with good friends and family that you can trust. Re-invent yourself, find some new interests or pursue ones that you already enjoy. Focus on yourself, try not to spend time moping around the empty sad house, get out and have some fun or at least get out.