Ok so last night she says she loves me, she tried to have sex with me but i wasnt in the mood. This mornin she says she loves me before i left for work. I called around 9 just to tell her i love her and she wouldnt say it back. Later she text me and says she loves me but she dont think she is in love anymore. This has happened 3 times already. What can i do? And im not tryin to just let her go, we have so much. You could look at us and see the love, we are really good together.
2007-03-29 03:30:31 · 17 answers · asked by importracer_6969 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her
2007-03-29 03:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by Stitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is feeling unloved and unappreciated, for what reason is not clear to me. She probably sees the romance in the relationship dieing. When she wanted sex, you were not in the mood, which is ok, but if this has been a pattern, then I would guess this is part of the reason she is feeling not inlove any more. When she told you she loved you before you left for work did you also tell her this back? I feel the problems you are both experiencing can easily be solved with just you both trying to add just a little spice back into your relationship. Romance her like you used to. Best of luck to you both.
2007-03-29 10:43:55 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she got sort of disappointed that you didn't have sex with her and she thought you don't find her sexy.
Disappointment could be really distracting sometimes and she sounds like someone who loves you.
When you are in a relationship, you should think about the two of you and not only the way you feel... I hope you didn't tell her that you are not in the mood to have sex because it hurts and normally a person in love with his g/f would make love to her at any time because its not sex only, it's the final step that makes you two complete.
2007-03-29 10:36:03 · answer #3 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in a kinda simialr situation, (as in i am your gf) and it hurts a lot bein rejected by the person u love, if they love you so much why won't they show it? it not a nice feeling. u need 2 talk 2 her n tell her how u feel and u guys ned 2 sort it out. it is a fixable problem. u just have 2 have the courage 2 air ur feelings.
2007-03-29 10:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by risendevil2k2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to give her some she want to roleplay with you. But you don't be in the mood for it. Oh she loves you but she want to show you in a different way. so Now you have to show her that you really loves her. And then she will say I love every day.( if its good) So really you need to step up your sex game. think about what I'm saying.
2007-03-29 10:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by myshia h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a phase to me. My bf and i go through the same thing all the time. You know she loves you and I'm sure she knows you love her. stop saying it for a while then when you feel like its a good time tell her you love her again and I'm sure she will say it back with sincerity.
2007-03-29 10:40:07 · answer #6 · answered by barbiebabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.........
She is obviously confused. And she might enjoy playing games with your emotions. The relationship can't be that good if you are the only one who is clear about your feelings.
I would say break it off. However, if you want to give her anoher chance. Have a serious conversation with her. Tell her you must know her true feelings for you. If she can't tell you or if she keeps playing this game that she has been doing. Then for your own sanity, break it off.
2007-03-29 10:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and talk with her. Let her know how much you care and that you don't want to break up and you're willing to try again. Maybe you guys can think of some things that need to change to make you both happier. Good luck!
2007-03-29 10:35:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We might see obsession more than love. It sounds more like you are playing a game by seeing who will be in control.
2007-03-29 10:37:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she probably is mad about you not saying you love her back until later or she is very confussed about thing and just don't give up or mad cuz u want in the mood and this is pay back
2007-03-29 10:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by Beauty is great!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if she flat out told you she is not in love with you, it is time to let it go.
You can't make someone fall in love with you.
Find someone who really cares for you.
2007-03-29 10:36:13 · answer #11 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋