My friend has been going out with this guy for three months and she doesn't want to break up with him, because she doesn't want to hurt his feelings. She also likes two other guys one that she just met and the other one that she thought was related to her. What should she do?
2007-03-29 03:30:16 · 16 answers · asked by LaCrazy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You better not learn from her. You do not have to worry too much about her.
It's fine to date a few guys, as in going out as friends.
She's not answerable to any of them until she confirmed that so-and-so is her officially her boyfriend.
It's not fine to go steady with a few guys at a time, as in having a few boyfriends at one go. She may end up with nothing. No guys like to share one girl. No girls like to share one guy. Why create such unnecessary trouble?
She better not get caught. But then again, it's better for her to get caught so she'll learn from her lesson. She's not the type that will listen to advice & follow "instructions" to go steady with one guy. Because she wants to get a better guy each time. I feel sorry for her and the guys that she's dating.
2007-03-29 03:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by Queenie Tay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No- I don't.
She needs to break up with the guy she has been dating for 3 months and "doesn't want to hurt his feelings". Most people in general wouldn't want to have a boyfriend/girlfriend out of "pity".
She also needs to find out if she is related to one of the guys-that could spell a lot of trouble later down the road.
2007-03-29 10:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lori C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be going out with 4 guys at the same time, a gang member, a white supremacist, and two guys i met on the internet! It's perfectly fine!
2007-03-29 10:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she should definitely find out if she's related to that one guy.... She shouldn't be dating someone she's related to! And there's no point in being with someone just because you don't want to hurt their feelings. If she keeps dragging it out it's just going to hurt him more in the long run.
2007-03-29 10:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should break up with the guy she is going out with if she doesnt like him anymore and then just go out with the two other guys.
But if the toher guy si actually related t her then i wouldnt do that.
2007-03-29 10:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by Yo Daddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's boy crazy. And loving the attention. But it isn't cool to date so many at once.
I dated 3 Tom's at once. My dad let the cat out of the bag by saying which Tom are you! LOL
2007-03-29 10:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why not? guys do it all the time. I say it's about time guys get some of their own medicine.
2007-03-29 10:39:18 · answer #7 · answered by chez006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick to the man she is already with or break up with him. If she wants to be with someone else, then she should let him go.
2007-03-29 10:34:51 · answer #8 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, she should stop makin more boyfriends! then she should act wired with her first bf . so wierd and disgustin that he wont want her anymore and be happy to break up wit her! do it till 1 remains.
2007-03-29 10:43:08 · answer #9 · answered by mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not good to do that if she dose that she will b called a cheater i say deside who she wants to b wit then c witch one she realy likes good luck
2007-03-29 10:35:55 · answer #10 · answered by soyelnegrito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋