When we are together, its fantastic, and i really feel he is my boyfriend, likes me and cares about me. He keeps telling me that. But he went away for two weeks, i hardly hear from him, i receive some kind of official sms every day or every other day, he only called me once. I am starting to wonder if the guy is never there, than he isn't my boyfriend. I never called him, only texted him once, but he knows how strong i feel for him, i told him before.
Shall i start looking for someone else? We discussed before that i wanted more attention and contact, and he was ok to do it, but he isn't showing interest much...
2007-03-29 03:29:38 · 12 answers · asked by Rita B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why haven't you called him? it's a two way thing you know. Why should he be calling/texting you first?
2007-03-29 03:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought you said he contacted you every other day at least even if it was just sms. That would be good enough for me. Perhaps he isn't sure what to say. Men are not the best conversationalists and maybe he is busy doing whatever it is he's gone away for? If your relationship is going well normally and he makes you feel good why question this contacting thing? I would be worried if you said he hadn't had ANY contact with you for a week or more. This just sounds normal to me. Perhaps you need to develop more of your own interests and find other forms of having a fulfilled life that don't all concentrate on him.
2007-03-29 10:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call him too, so i agree with the other posters. But if you call/text him and he doesn't reply as quickly as your used to then i think you might wanna think about moving on. But give it a try calling him back, you might find your worrying over nothing.
2007-03-29 11:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by scatty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy does not love you,he doesn't love you. Making you happy or involving you in his plans will be a struggle for him. Good sex or good petting can not replace love,if it is not there it is not there. Start looking for another guy who would love you every time not just when he is on heat!
2007-03-29 10:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has probably gone away with another girl for a hot passionate holiday. If he cared for you he would be calling.
2007-03-29 10:42:35 · answer #5 · answered by chez006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound quite needy, i agree with the other poster, why should he have to call and text first? Do you expect him to run around after you?
if you carry on being needy you will lose him, be more confident and outgoing.
2007-03-29 10:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him out right.. what do you want? honesty is the best policy and hopefully he will be honest back with you. unfortunately, SOME people on here aren't particulary sympathetic!! good luck x
2007-03-29 10:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a grip, it was 2 weeks - looks like you are the one who isnt that interested and just looking for an excuse to end it
2007-03-29 10:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by laneyb_1983 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You could call him too. Maybe he's thinking the same thing you are thinking; that his girl doesn't call him enough.
2007-03-29 10:36:03 · answer #9 · answered by bombastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here my b/f in gatlin burg {mountains} we havent talked in almost 2 days i call him but he has no service..i miss him
2007-03-29 11:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by Zack & Daela 4-Eva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋