My friend Paula and her boyfriend Tim have been together for about 3 years. And about 4 months ago, i started noticing something. At first it was small like they'd say something they agreed on and quietly said ' lets have sex when these people leave" and stuff. then they would start running upstairs when they were happy with each other or something or wanted to ( when you were sitll over) and have sex. then they got so passionate that they would just like stipe right there and start vionatly having sex. ( not like vilontly, i guess more " passionatly"). how should i talk to paula about this or shouldn't I? what should i do? or should i do anything?
thanks and paula's 24 and her bf is 2
2007-03-29 03:21:24 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ Ava ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OH SRRY! Paula is 24 and SO is her bf that's what i meant not 2 years old srry
2007-03-29 03:35:54 · update #1
sounds as if they are wanting you to join in because most couples keep what is private to themselves unless they are looking for others to join in. In their behavior is upsetting just walk out each time it happens soon they will see that their behavior is unacceptable and either stop it or ask you why you walk out.
2007-03-29 03:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like they are trying in a not so subtle way to get you to join in their fun. Either that or they get turned on by someone watching. If it makes you uncomfortable, just say "have a good time" and leave. You should be able to spot the behavior before it gets out of hand. Sooner or later, they will get the message.
2007-03-29 10:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that's a misprint - her b/f is 2? Anyway, I guess I would politely excuse myself when this begins but talk to her the next time you two are alone. They probably are exhibitionists and like it that there are people around and are not considering whether they are making anyone else uncomfortable. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-03-29 10:26:32 · answer #3 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that if you don't like what's going on in their home you shouldn't go over. I know you may think what they do is not necessary. But, that is there home and they are adults. Let them have their relationship and do what they want to do. All you have to do is stop going over there. Then, if she ask you why, just let her know THEN that you are uncomfortable with the things they do. If people just sit and watch as they do this, it would be hard to believe that you don't enjoy it.
2007-03-29 10:30:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just carzy i think a true friend would not do that kind of stuff to another friend i say yeah u should say something to her about it talk to her let her know that u dont like what u see in they stuff takes place good luck
2007-03-29 10:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by soyelnegrito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her boyfriend is 2? Paula is a rapist!!
2007-03-29 10:26:01 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let her know that her actions is not decent. If she is your friend she won't hold it against you she should respect your presence and so should he. Why be around freaks like that anyway?(Maybe it's just a phase you friend is going through doh).
2007-03-29 10:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by monalisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you don't feel comfortable with her when she starts having sex with her boyfriend in front of you.
2007-03-29 10:25:46 · answer #8 · answered by Emiline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the problem?... Thats their relationship... They're happy... Give them some $ for the show and enjoy your evening...
2007-03-29 10:27:14 · answer #9 · answered by Coach White 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like a happy couple,, you shouldnt say anything and if you are uncomfortable watching them then just leave
2007-03-29 10:27:36 · answer #10 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋