the very first time he corresponds with you? I have been on a dating service for a few days now, and several guys have just asked me out the very first correspondance. Also, I have noticed some guys dont even ask questions to try to get to know you, or dont answer your questions. What do you think about all of this? How soon should you meet someone, and is it ok to ask for their last name and address before agreeing to meet them? Any advice would be appreciated.
2007-03-29 03:06:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If a guy asks you out on the first correspondance--LAME. That indicates that they don't really care to get to know you, all they want is a "girlfriend" or a good lay. Online dating is not very reliable, and you should only meet the person when you feel comfortable with them and you've gotten to know them.
2007-03-29 03:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by Emiline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would HIGHLY recommend not dating them this soon. Spend the time getting to know them first. If they're not willing to put forth the effort to get to know you first, then why do they want to date you? I spent three months talking with my wife online before we went on our first official date!!!
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2007-03-29 19:04:08 · answer #2 · answered by Mark V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it have been some element basically like having lunch with a co-worker I enjoyed, i could have not have been given any issue with doing the asking. If I easily have been relatively extremely joyful with a guy, and somewhat 'mandatory' him, optimum in all threat i may be the shy one...and basically hint around sufficient to choose for that he must be the asker. If he have been relatively shy (with me being shy, that way, myself), i think of of we could land up basically putting out for a jointly as...talking, interior the previous the two human beings could be waiting to make a pass. Even having been married extra helpful than as quickly as, and being a mom, I even nevertheless does now no longer experience comfortable being the aggressor...it could make me experience that I cared extra helpful than he did...i could desire to experience that he cared extra, or a minimum of as plenty.
2016-11-24 21:16:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are a lot of guys who believe the advertising on the site and think the ladies will go gaga if they ask them out ---- let the guy ask some questions get to know him --- yes get some details --- phone number is good mobile and landline ---- last names and addresses may be false but if you can get them on the phone that is a good sign --- how soon depends on the connection you feel and how far apart you are --- go with your feelings and instincts --- i met my lady online and she is everything to me --- and im no spring chicken --- best wishes
2007-03-29 03:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're smart to be skeptical, it's the safe thing to do.
Protect yourself because nobody else will. These so-called eager beavers who wish to meet and then "talk" might possibly mean they wish to meet and then "get lucky", instead.
They cannot accomplish that goal by getting to know a girl through typing.
Stay safe.
2007-03-29 03:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Demeanor 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋