i have no excuse other than i just don't want to be with her no more, can you help please? thanks
2007-03-29 01:50:19 · 40 answers · asked by Bruza 17/uk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey..here's a mature thing....tell the truth! WOW ....what a concept! Why is it you children can't tell the truth? The lies come back to you...ALWAYS...and cause PAIN!
2007-03-29 01:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You don't need an excuse,just say it as it is.Giving her lame excuses won't make her hurt less rather it will make her hurt more. If you did ever love the least you can do for her is to tell her the truth. She will hurt all the same but she will get over it. A man does not wrong away from challenges he handles them. That's what seperates the boys from the men.
2007-03-29 02:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be truthful with her. Don't give her any excuses. Girls generally know when a guy is giving her an excuse and it generally makes it hurt more. Tell her you that you just don't feel the connection anymore and make sure you don't use any corny break up lines.
2007-03-29 01:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by Ally 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello there looks like you are in a right pickle well the first thing you should do is be honest with her tell her your feelings talk to her and tell her about how you are feeling and that you wnat tosplit whats the mattewr have you met some body else ? just be honest with her. If you cant tell her face to face then write to her and tell her why remember be honest
anyway take care lots of love veronicaxxx
2007-03-29 01:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest and tell her that you feel the relationship has run its course and you feel that you no longer want to be in a committed relationship.If you go and make up excuses why you dont want to be with her - you run the risk of her promising to change or not do stuff anymore - by being totally honest - you're eliminating any chance of a reconciliation with her.
xx
2007-03-29 02:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No excuse need at all. Just lay it out strait. I do not wish to date you any longer sorry.
I once used the "we are in too different emotional places right now" she pleaded with me to explain so I said " you love me and I am bored with having to spend time with you and looking at you. I just like to F*&^ you. Also want to date other girls" This explaination although harsh solved the sitation she did not speak to me again.
2007-03-29 01:58:15 · answer #6 · answered by david c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth hurts but it's better than being lied to, sit her down and let her know about your feelings be honest don't make any excuses.
2007-03-29 01:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really should try just being honest with her because I'm a girl and just to let you know girls appreciate it when you're honest with them if i were you i would tell her the truth. Hope this helps : )
2007-03-29 01:54:30 · answer #8 · answered by candei 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk away from Her,You have done enough bad to Her,You stpd @ss Hole.
and You know it,the reason You come with that question ,is for blaming someone else of all Your she-e-t
2007-03-30 00:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're question has the answer. Just tell her that you don't want to be with her anymore. period.
Tell her you need your space, you had enough, it wasn't her fault. You're too young to get tied down.
Billy Joel had another answer, There must be 50 ways to leave your lover.
2007-03-29 01:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by Fordman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BRUZ
HONESTY is the best policy! Tell her that just that NO EXCUSE's maybe in some weird way down the road you will be helping her!
2007-03-29 01:53:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋