I'm so sorry for you and your family.what you can do is spend lots of time with her' and let her know how much she is loved and what a great mom she is,,,you could rub lotion on her legs and hands as it makes you feel better as your skin is so dry,,,,do what ever you can to make her last months as peaceful and calming as possible,even if your having big problems don;t let her know 'as she has enough going on now at this time,,,,,my mom died in the hosp. and i was not able to hug and kiss her and tell her how loved she was and still is,,, i had to go to the funeral home to sit and say my goodbyes,,,i will always have my mom in my heart as you will also,,,ask her what she needs and wants also,,,be strong it;s a rough ride coming,,,,good-luck and god bless your family and especially your mom.,.,.,.,
2007-03-29 05:43:37
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answered by Cami lives 6
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hi sweetie. My prayers are with you. I am in the same situation, however, my mom is suffering from sepsis. I have regained my strength by focusing on the fact that the least thing you should want is for your mother to suffer. Even if you try your best to rejuvenate her, her spirit may be down. Sometimes many of us, when we are sick, we tend to feel as we are a burden for those who are caring for us. I believe that If you can keep the thought of her not suffering anymore in your heart and mind, her passing may be looked upon as a blessing for her. I mean this in the most caring and positive manner. Please forgive me if you find this insensitive or rash. Ty Best withes for you and her.
2007-03-28 21:47:14
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answered by lulu 2
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I don't believe its over....til its over. I have lung cancer and was only given a few months. Its now going on one year and I feel quite well. There are things your mom can do to try and beat this. She can start juicing for one thing. Try and get as many nutrients into her that she can handle. Alkalize her system.
2007-03-29 03:50:47
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answered by Anonymous
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if medical doctors have given up there is nothing anyone here can do for you,oh wait!!! prayers they work i once had a friend who was diagnosed for hiv a week later he went into 1 week fasting programme(you can do that for our mom)no food no water till like 3pm and steady prayer and after the week programme he went back to the hosiptal and the doctor found nothing ,the whole point is GOD that created you has a spare part for any faults ,the problem is gon be if your mom believes in jesus?if she does u can do that for her and believe too,and i believe GOD will do it for u
2007-03-28 21:45:44
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answered by combs 5
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Purpose to do some "memory making" activities with your Mom. Whether you share a place, a poem, a game, a special day.
And, for the both of you, go to church, let them pray for you.
2007-03-28 21:41:03
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answered by Hope 7
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Spend as much time with her as you can. Talk about things she wants to talk about. Be comforting and upbeat with her during this stressful time for you. Pray every day. Be thankful for the time that you've had with her. Good Luck.
2007-03-28 21:47:30
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answered by Anonymous
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You can try these cancer fighters on her, serratia peptidase, DHEA and Graviola and they have a site go to www.rain-tree.com/graviola.htm And pray for her everyday.
2007-03-29 11:50:38
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answered by Bruce 4
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Yes. Get on the Halleujah Diet. www.hacres.com
2007-03-28 23:05:12
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answered by ? 3
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Spend as much time with her as possible.
2007-03-28 21:38:34
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answered by Anonymous
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