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What would you think about that, without knowing any details of her life and current situation?

2007-03-28 19:24:47 · 22 answers · asked by Just Bianca 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

I meant to say "when" not "of" when I typed the question. Sorry. Its 2am.

2007-03-28 19:25:58 · update #1

22 answers

I would think it's her choice and she is justified in making any decision that she wants. Being prochoice doesn't mean you would necessarily choose an abortion for yourself, it means supporting that the choice exists for all women equally. If she chooses to keep the pregnancy, that's her choice and I support her and wish her the best of luck. If she chooses to obtain an abortion, that's her choice and I support her and wish her the best.

That's the essence of being prochoice - supportive that a choice actually exists.

2007-03-28 19:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by jenn_smithson 6 · 3 1

I wouldn't think twice about seeing a teenage mom. It's not a taboo subject anymore. As long as the young mother was responsible, cared for her child properly it's not an issue. I do have a problem w/some young mom's who let thier kids hang out in messy diapers, try to party like "regular" teenagers, all in all who don't own up to the tremendous responsibilty of being a parent. As long as that teenager is aware that they must be selfless, I don't think it's an issue.
You can be Pro-choice, but decide that abortion isn't the choice you want to make.
This would also mean that you don't pass judgement and support those who chose to terminate their pregnancies. There are many reasons not to continue w/a pregnancy and many reason to do so as well, it's a personal and often difficult choice to make.

2007-03-29 11:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by jetaunbraese 3 · 1 0

I think it's great! It shows that you are doing what feels right for you. You have to look at the whole picture and make the decision for you that you are most comfortable with. Either one will change your life forever. Although keeping the baby has a more visible impact to others. Not keeping the baby has the most powerful impact on you internally.

You have to make the decision that you will be able to live with for the rest of your life. Just because you're pro-choice doesn't mean that you are against anyone wanting to keep their baby. This is a personal decision. If you choose to keep the baby and are also pro-choice. That is okay and NO ONE should judge you for that!

2007-03-29 02:34:15 · answer #3 · answered by Frances 2 · 1 1

Just because she is pro choice doesn't mean she can't make the decesion to have her baby, and to keep her baby. She may be pro choice but decided this was best for her and her situation. There is no telling what kind of support she has or what factors played into her decesion. And is she pro choice to the point of abortion for whatever reason, or is she pro choice when the situation is unfavorable for her or her unborn childs life, ie. birth defects, etc.

2007-03-29 03:00:26 · answer #4 · answered by Tikled_Ivory 6 · 0 1

I think that she is exercising her right to choose.
I am pro-life myself, so I may be speaking out of turn.
That is also why I am pro birth control and against abstinence only sex education. I think fewer teens would feel abortion was their only option if they really knew the risks and how to protect themselves.
I think she is doing the right thing by taking responsibility for her actions and keeping the baby. I hope she has support.

2007-03-29 03:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by georgiegirl422 5 · 2 0

I say good for her, and it only proves that a pro choice person can come around. I know that is harsh to say but it is true. I am pro life, and i hate it when ppl say its the womans body so its her choice, but nobody ever thinks of the choice of the baby. She is choosing let her baby live and I can only hope that all of the pro choicers out there let her keep that choice and push the death option on her cuz that is not an option. Killing is never an option.

2007-03-29 04:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by Squeakers 4 · 1 2

I think it's always better to give your baby life. I think the choices should be made prior to conception! I think a teenager should seriously look into adoption. There are so many people who are ready for children, but can't have them. There are too many babies being raised by young girls who just aren't prepared for motherhood....when there are well educated, financially stable, emotionally prepared adults ready to give a baby a loving home.

2007-03-29 03:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by Linnygirl 5 · 0 0

I think it is awesome. I hope she realizes the responsibility but it is way better than having an abortion. Believe me, I know. If she wants to keep the baby, I hope she has a great support circle of family and friends who will help her love and make that baby feel as wanted as it seems she wants to make it feel. :)

2007-03-29 07:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by sherijgriggs 6 · 0 0

i think it is the individuals responsibility to choose what she wants. i believe its the pregnants womans body so she decides no matter what the age.

then again... what about the finances that would pay for the support of the baby? a teenager cannot go to school and support a child. life will be super super hard for her.

if no support from parents or relatives, i'd say a teenager has no say.

good luck!

2007-03-29 02:32:00 · answer #9 · answered by ty808 3 · 0 1

I think pro-choice means an informed choice. I hope that all women who are in a dilemma about being pregnant will receive all the information and counseling they need to make an informed choice.

2007-03-29 02:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by Over The Rainbow 5 · 2 1

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