hi im in love with my teacher, but im kind of shy, we´ve been going out, but i don´t like to call him, I don´t want him to think that im a begger, I don´t want to butter him. So I just wait for him to call me. Is that bad??, Im so in love with him, but Im scared to be rejected. What should I do
2007-03-28 19:01:31 · 12 answers · asked by Flakasha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should learn the subject he teachs, surprise him with your knowledge.
Learn everything about his teaching subject.
Then discuss with him what you have learnt.
2007-03-28 19:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by skulty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this is bad.
I don't know how old you are but since you are writing "teacher" as opposed to "professor", I'm going to guess you are under 18. However, if you are over 18, you shouldn't be dating your teacher.
Why? Because it's against the school's policy and he could lose his job for dating a student. And he knows it.
All relationships should be equal. By that I mean you should be as comfortable calling him as he is calling you. I'll bet that this relationship is secret, isn't it?
Do you two walk around the school holding hands? Do you kiss each other hello or goodbye? Do you go on dates in public where you could be seen by others from school? Do you go on dates to school functions? I didn't think so.
Here's what I think you should do. If possible, transfer out of the class. If it's too late to do that, NEVER, EVER, EVER be alone with this "man" again. EVER.
Go to student services and ask for counseling to discuss this issue. Everything you say is confidential.
This man is taking advantage of his position of power. This is a form of sexual harassment. Yes, it is. It is the same as a boss dating an employee so the employee gets better treatment in the workplace.
This is not an equal relationship and I can see you only being hurt by this if this situation continues.
hon, I care for you. I really do. A friend of mine was in this situation when we were in high school and it has messed her up for life. She's never married and still cries over this man.
Please don't let this happen to you. He's taking advantage of you and he knows what he is doing is wrong.
2007-03-29 02:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mira N 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe u have to know he seems just want to be a teacher as well.and he is very responsible teacher..so no wonder any girl could b fall in love with him. maybe u have thinking positively that this guy only ur Teacher.but if he is showing u some hint that he likes u too, maybe u will notice it but if it's not, just take serious with ur study..that's better than everything n for the future.
2007-03-29 02:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by get to know 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I taught you are not supposed to date your teacher, but is not wrong to call him once in a while, not all the time. When you call him and he is sounds like he doesn't want to talk to you don't call him back is not worth it, he might not feel the same way like you, but if he sound happy keep on talking to him there might be a chance he likes you too
2007-03-29 02:09:11 · answer #4 · answered by odd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have been going out? so then whats the problem, talk to him tell him how you feel, ask if he feels the same way, if it does not its OK, he is after all your teacher he is an educator, he will help you.
2007-03-29 02:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by AnnaDaAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't MAKE anyone fall in love with you. It just happens.
By the way, no offense or anything, that's weird. lol
2007-03-29 02:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by destroyedradio 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First how old are you and how old is he? It makes a big difference on the advice you'll get.
2007-03-29 02:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by Freaked out 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not graduate..do not collect an A+++++ for your homework, watch your "boyfriend/teacher" go to JAIL.
Have a nice life, you freak.
2007-03-29 02:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You could grow up.
2007-03-29 02:06:55 · answer #9 · answered by Mon Cher 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did you say your in the 5th grade?
2007-03-29 02:05:04 · answer #10 · answered by Richie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋