I see his name everywhere and hear it constantly. I am always seeing his car, it's not his car but I keep seeing red jeep grand cherokees every where I go. Today it's like I heard his name at least 50 times. But really something is going on here and it's freakin me out. He doesn't even know how I feel about him. I am afraid to tell him because I can't handle the rejection.
2007-03-28 18:34:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you have any contact, or are you even friends with this guy? I think you are being a little obsessive here, and I don't feel it is healthy for you. If you do not know this guy, or you are just aquaintances, then I would cinsider talking to a counselor. Please do not take offense, but if this behavior has been persisting for any lenth of time, please consider speaking to a professional. Your fixation, and obsession, in my opinion is a bit out of the norm.
2007-04-05 07:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a saying "is better to experience love then never to have experience love." In life you have to take chances and if you feel so strongly about him then you should just express yourself to him. If you don't you will only hurt yourself more and at least even if you get rejected you can still move on a little easier. Who know perhaps he feel the same way too. So take a chance at love and see what will happen. Everyone will get rejection once or twice in their life time so if you do get rejected you are not the first person. So express your feelings to him and you will know instead of always thinking and dreaming of him. I wish you the strength and good luck!
2007-04-06 01:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by puppyeye2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How will you ever know if you don't take a chance. Life is all about chances and sometimes the best ones will pass you by because your afraid. If your really into this guy i would definately get his attention, the worst that can happen is a simple no. Besides there are so many other guys out there.
2007-04-06 00:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by Betty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same problem here but I can't take my own advice so maybe you will. Try becoming friends with him and it will become a lot easier to talk to him. Maybe you could eventually ask you out or he will like you a lot and will ask you out. Personally, I would want the guy to ask me out but, again, that's just me and I can't take my own advice so good luck and I hope everything works out for the best. I'm sure it will. Good luck and try to have some fun with it! :)
2007-04-05 19:05:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
me i can get anyone that i like because i ask them out tell the crack i asked a girl out for 8 years than i scerred up but show him you care maby flert with him ask i he has some feeling for you see what it will be my math teacher always says 50% of something is beter than 100% of nothing if you dont try to do something your not going to move forward try im scared of rejection but i will keep going tell i get them tho so its your jugment but all i can say is sow that you care
2007-04-06 01:29:09 · answer #5 · answered by corey_quinlan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you're mature enough and he's mature enough then tell him.
I know what your going through...ever since i met my boyfriend i keep seeing ads for Australia, and i keep hearing people with accents, and hearing his voice.
So go for it...what have you to lose.
Good luck.
2007-04-05 22:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by april s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look if you dont tell him that you are interested he will never know it...just tell him and see if he likes you to, you never know...you reject yourself every day by telling yourself that he may reject you...what do you really have to lose and think about what you may have to gain.
2007-04-05 20:36:41 · answer #7 · answered by Evie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really like him. Just tell him. Good luck.
2007-04-05 21:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by bluegirl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not that you are afraid of him rejecting you. It is that you are afraid of rejecting you from yourself. Accept yourself and then it will not matter if he accepts you or not.
2007-03-29 01:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well then don't tell him. Ignore it and maybe it will go away.
2007-03-29 01:50:15 · answer #10 · answered by letty g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋