When my boyfriend and I have sex, sometimes I fall asleep during or after (because I am tired). He says it is a turnoff because I snore really loud with my mouth wide open. Girls, my loud open mouth snoring shouldn't matter, right?
2007-03-28 18:29:26 · 26 answers · asked by Marie C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It wouldn't stop me...lol
2007-03-28 18:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if you snore loud. Look at us men! We are the worst by far i think... Now falling aslep "during sex" would definitely bring up the question as to why. Even if i'm tired, i will be wide awake for that no matter what. Now after is normal. you're tired from that day, and with sex on top only wears tires you even more.
2007-03-29 01:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by engineer46526 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...mmm...hahaa...LOL!!!...plz tell me u see the humor in this!!-LOL
Ok: i can understand how u falling asleep..DURING sex could be a turn off for him..&frankyly quite hilarious since it implies that ur sex is-boring.
So turn it up a notch, cause falling asleep like that during sex is just not on.
Snoring...well, that is just certain human nature, when the persons breathing cannels aint that open, u can ask a doctor for some advice, some off which could stop the snoring completly.
After sex u fall asleep &start snoring shouldnt actually matter to him, but look it from his point of view sleeping next to a person that snores can be quite annoying plus it can stop him from falling asleep himself.
So if u can help it wait for him to fall asleep first, then fall asleep yourself, else he should just except it &buy himself sum decent earplugs.
2007-03-29 01:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'd have to say it does matter. To him it's like a huge hint that you're getting bored. If it is just because you're tired, try doing it earlier in the evening, or around a time when you're fully awake. I can see how a guy would get offended over their mate falling asleep, even moreso if they're listening to a rusty chainsaw in the middle of sex.
2007-03-29 01:33:55 · answer #4 · answered by Angel R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAN HE MUST REALLY SUCK IN BED? LOL
Personally maybe you should try when you not so tired
because well if anything it is hard for my wife not to yell the roof off our place.
One other thing are you really enjoying yourself if your falling asleep.? Maybe it's time to try some other things in bed for one not the missionary style all the time. Maybe if you are the one doing the riding you would have more thought to stay awake meaning straddle your man!
Anyways I think it would be very displeasing if my wife fell asleep during sex after fine since it usually goes on for 2-3hrs.
One thing I found that helps and also keeps you very aroused and alert is switch positions during sex like missionary, straddle him, doggy style you get what I'm saying. If anything this will prolong the orgasm making it better and you will have to stay awake. Maybe your BF is just not knowledgable
on sex if you know more then him maybe it's time to teach him so things that get you off.
Good Luck and have fun.
2007-03-29 01:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You falling asleep during sex means he's boring to you. If you had someone putting it down, you would not fall asleep.
Snoring is unattractive. Sleep on your side.
2007-03-29 01:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. FeelGood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you fall asleep DURING, that is bad.. I could see why that is a turn off.
What my question is.. is that what is sex like for you? Do you get satisfaction? If it's all just for him, it is not good.
Think about what you might want to be done different so that both of you can enjoy it and not fall asleep!
2007-03-29 01:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by helloworld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you bf cares about you of course he is going to be turned off by your open mouth and snoring.
He wants to see you screaming your head off, by how much he is pleasuring you.
If my bf fell asleep during se* and started to snore I would be really offended
2007-03-29 01:34:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAve sex when you wake up and brush your teeth. If a partner is asleep or dead, I would not even bother. Sex with the dead is against the law. So is drugging a girl to have sex with her. What's the diff. between that and what your boyfriend is doing.
2007-03-29 01:35:27 · answer #9 · answered by Danver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, this is the oldest gripe in the book. There is more to his gripe than your sex. He probable is hiding behind the "sex" issue to save face that he doesn't like to be kept awake by your snoring.
2007-03-29 01:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should start having sex earl yer in the day if you can.i understand cause when we had our first baby i was so tired i done the same thing. are it could just be hes not doing his job in bed cause if it was good you wouldn't fall asleep now would you
2007-03-29 01:41:51 · answer #11 · answered by amanda g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋