Honestly, do you like it or think that it comes across as desperate?
2007-03-28 18:26:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it doesn't come across as desperate at all. Its the coolest thing ever, I love it. I am really "into" girls that are like that.
2007-03-28 18:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask if by a lady pursuing she appears desperate. Well think about this: since guys have had to pursue women since the beginning of time, does that make them all desperate? See what a double standard that is!
BTW most men pursue women reluctantly, I might add, because it gets tiresome to lose so much all the time. So why don't the chicks just take over. Guys, shall we put it to a vote?
P.S.: I LOVE it when a lady is the pursuer.
2007-03-28 18:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys love to be pursued. one because guys have egos that need to be inflated and two because girls dont do it that much. it only comes across as desperate if you are desperate.
2007-03-28 18:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by asg_is_chillin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares about desperate, the only way someone is desperate is when they are like ALL OVER YOU. if someone pursues you, then you have someone who likes you, whats so wrong with that?
2007-03-28 18:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by kilbo49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind it if a girl pursue's a guy. I actually met my fiance this way. She asked me out to coffee and the rest is history. Take a chance, but be prepared for it not to work out.
Good luck!
2007-03-28 18:34:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jon S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, it depends on the girl, if the guy is interested then he will appreciate it, if he doesnt like the girl it's annoying and desperate
2007-03-28 18:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by Chris M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a girl pursue a guy, it boost our ego.
2007-03-28 18:32:21 · answer #7 · answered by alain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its so annoying and it seems really desperate.
2007-03-28 18:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by goniners1000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your kinda suttle in your persuit of him then thats like hella cool. just dont over persuit and end up looking like a stalker, cuz thats just not cool.
2007-03-28 18:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by scorpio79_15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋