Should I call him?

Question

I met this guy online when he sent me his profile. We exchanged few emails and it happened that he had to make a trip to the country I live in for business. So he asked if we could meet and I said yes coz I am eager to meet him. He told me the hotel he will be at and asked that I contact him or leave a message at the front desk. I called a day after he got here and we talked. He has some appointments and conferences to attend before his departure in 4days. He took my number and said he will call later in the day to fix time for us to meet. He has not called and I about 1hr away from where he is. He asked if he needed toi call the number directly without any codes and I told him how to. I am wondering...could he have suddenly lost interest or could he have difficulty dialing the number? (I doubt coz he may can help with this). I dont want to call if I think he is no longer interested. He said we could meet tomorrow coz we both are busy today. I am not sure if I should call his hotel

Answer 1

Well if you two are meeting tomorrow anyway then give him some time.
Maybe he is still busy. If you want to call then call in the evening so you at least have the excuse that you want to "plan your day" for tomorrow or something like that ;)

Answer 2

Leave it alone---but a nice friendly meal in a public place would have been nice--it is always nice to meet new people--just don't get too excited or get too involved--he is from another country and you know NOTHING about him except for what he told you. He might be married and makes contacts everywhere he goes---but don't expect him to admit it--just don't be too available for this guy--charming men travel the world meeting women they hope are loose and willing to have casual sex. But a friendly meeting would be nice---do not call--you will appear too anxious--too lonely--too easy. Be nice, smile , relax and good luck

Answer 3

I sure hope he's not already married... so be careful. Guys that travel to another country to meet other women - are not in it for love. Just for sex. I could be wrong - but since you said he hasn't called - I'd say he got from you what he wanted. If he has your number and you don't have his - then there's not much you can do. I'd say - don't meet with anymore guys that are not from your country - especially if they want to have sexual relations with you - that's why they call them "One night stands".

Answer 4

It just might be that he is nervous!
I would suggest you calling him to the hotel, cause otherwise you could miss an opportunity to know this person!
If you don't feel too intimidated for it, I would say to go for it, and if he doesn't ever contact you back, then maybe he just chickened out...

Answer 5

Call him, and say that you didn't want any misunderstandings. After all, he did come over all that way, didn't he? Maybe he hasn't figured out how to dial out of his hotel, as embarrassing as it sounds... Good luck.

Answer 6

it wouldn't hurt nothing if you just called him to see if you guys are still going to meet up. he probably just got busy with his meetings and stuff and forgot to call. good luck :)

Answer 7

I think....he is not intrest to meet U, May be he got some other good company(another girl)..don`t care him & leave him his way...

Answer 8

sounds like he's hiding something it doesnt sound right to me if he wanted you he would have reached out for you men are funny creatures

Answer 9

What r u waiting for?CALL HIM.

Answer 10

call him! if you like him call him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! if you do not like him when you meet him you can always stop seeing him. but if you do not go you don't want to go on with your life wondering what would have happened if you went!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!CALL HIM CALL HIM CALL HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!