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i am very much depresed and all my dreams are shattered. I am feeling guilty for what i have done. All my friends well settled in life but i am not able to get even an ordinary job. My parents have high expectation from me. Iam unable to know about my strengths. A am veery poor in doing hard work and commitment.

2007-03-28 18:03:24 · 16 answers · asked by saggi 1 in Health Mental Health

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Go to your doctor and get a recommendation for a good psychiatrist. You need to either get on medication or talk to a professional. You are carrying a load too great. Guilt, self pity and worthless feelings are not okay.
Nothing in this world could make anyone THAT bad. Unless you committed murder and mutilation of a child....you can be forgiven. Move away from the bad light and into the good. Seek help. It is a sign of strength to reach out your hand.

2007-03-28 18:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by The Canadian 3 · 0 0

Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. - Author Unknown
Consult not your fears but your hopes and your dreams. Think not about your frustrations, but about your unfulfilled potential. Concern yourself not with what you tried and failed in, but with what it is still possible for you to do. - Pope John XXIII
Don't be afraid to give your best to what seemingly are small jobs. Every time you conquer one it makes you that much stronger. If you do the little jobs well, the big ones tend to take care of themselves.Dale Carnegie
Dreams are renewable. No matter what our age or condition, there are still untapped possibilities within us and new beauty waiting to be born. - Dale Turner
Fall seven times; stand up eight. - Japanese Proverb
Forget past mistakes. Forget failures. Forget everything except what you're going to do now, and do it. - William Durant
Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow. - Melody Beattie
Each moment is an opportunity to reveal a miracle. Grace is a wonderful quality of the Spirit. When it is manifested in our lives, it brings the energy that uplifts our vibrations and clears the inner barriers. To be in a state of gratefulness is to put into practice the certainty that if we knock the door will be opened, and if we ask it will be given unto us. - Sonia Cafe

2007-03-28 18:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by Unicornrider 7 · 0 0

"All my friends well settled in life but i am not able to get even an ordinary job."

I feel that pain. I just found out that my ex-fiance is so successful that people interview him specifically for his opinion on law. Whole articles are devoted to how great he is.

Moving right along.....

It's definitely hard to be in a different place than most people.

Try this mission statement generator. It can help clarify your values. It says to give your email, but you can give a fake email if you want. You still see the results.

Live your real values. Take actions that are meaningful to you.

2007-03-28 18:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by lexi m 6 · 0 0

When u cannot solve ur problem, pray to God to kindly solve ur problem and show u the right path. Change ur routine, u have to stand up for urself-respect. Get up before sun-rise and finish with morning routine. Go to any temple for 40 days and from the very first day pray for respectable job and success there at. Thru out the day brush up ur knowledge for the job u r praying for. Give auto suggestions to urself " I have been blessed with respectable job" as many times as possible. Before u go to sleep keep a glass of water on near ur bed(preferably behind ur head side), drink half a glass of water and while drinking give auto suggestion as given above. In the morning, first thing u do is drink the left-over half glass of water with the same auto suggestion. Then start ur day. Within 40 days u will get the job. If u get job earlier, must complete the 40 days routine. Stick to one temple u start with. U have to work hard. Nothing is free of cost.

2007-03-28 19:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by sudershan Guddy 4 · 0 0

You are young and need to look to the elders to teach you more. You will find that those that took the route like yours found there was a Great Leveler in life who steps in and balances out the happy and sad ,the good and the bad. If you haven't had religious training it will still happen for you as long as we don't give up trying to improve.

2007-03-28 18:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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2016-10-01 21:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by kurihara 4 · 0 0

Never say like this.You can try now--its not too late.Remember that you are born with all the potentials but sometimes due to certain factors you didt succeed.But no one is having only darkness in life--there must be light.You have your strenghts.Just comeon and start with positive attitude.First be happy what you are and then try.Ok.Best of luck.

2007-03-30 01:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by Mehbooba 4 · 0 0

I suggest taking some tests to find out what you are good at. They are called vocational interest tests, I think.

Community colleges usually have an office where the people are there to help people find what they are good at and what kinds of jobs they will like.

Feeling good comes from accomplishments, and if you find out what you should be doing, you will be able to accomplish things and you will feel better.

I didn't find my direction til I was 35, and it made a ton of difference to me financially and psychologically. Good luck.

2007-03-28 18:50:36 · answer #8 · answered by mojomurphy 2 · 0 0

Forget pleasing your parents! Please yourself you have to love yourself and your life.Only you can make your choices in life.Maybe this is why you cannot get or keep a job.You maybe wanting to please others more than pleasing yourself!
Go to Vocational Rehab. This service will get you on track with your life from Medical Attention to Help You Getting a Job That You Can Keep! You Are Not A Loser In Life! God Has A Purpose For You! Keep Your Head Up!

2007-03-28 18:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

hey suck it up im 29 no family a teenage daughter . ive beento prison 2 times and have 3 felonys pending.and the only law i break is pot so hey your life aint all that bad. ive been solber for a few months and trust me u just have to find the irony in all of this..life is about learning

2007-03-28 18:15:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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