Ok, I am in a relationship that I have been in for 3 years. Everything is so so. We get a long but things aren't great. Conversation isn't great but ok. Humor is ok but not great. We aren't completely compatible and come from differnet backgrounds. You get the point. We have had a lot of problems throughout our relationship. I have a feeling its not right but everytime I break up I end up getting back together. She is the first woman I slept with and my only relationship over 1 year. Here is why I am having trouble getting over the relationship and I know it is shallow but I am speaking the truth and looking for help. The sex is amazing... (I know shallow) She has one of the hottest body I have ever seen! Like a cross between a victoria secret model and playboy playmate. My dream body if I were to pick a girl. I think I put up with all the crap because I can't get away from the sex. Maybe because she is the only women I have been with? I want to change and look for love. need advise!
2007-03-28 17:57:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look into your heart,see if you can honestly see what her heart holds,also look into her eyes and you will find the anser,this is an old saying ,but very true.
the eyes are the doorway to the soul.if truly in your heart,her eyes tell you she loves you then you are on the right track...............dave
2007-03-28 18:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by dave m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, realize that nothing will be "great". If you are setting your expectations too high, you will ultimately fall every time. I'm not sure how old you are, but if you are a young adult (19-35+) then a year is a long time and if you do not love her yet, let her go. you are only going to hurt her more if you continue to string her along
2007-03-29 01:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by abchoate1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cannot say if you must hook up with some one else ..but do u not feel the sex thing is/could be due to love compatibility you share??
yup u said its "OK" not the best ..but its natural when one thing is WOW the other thing can be little less wow.
i think you do like her a lot ..not sure about love ... regarding the shallow bit .. i think you THINK that its only physical but i get vibes from your post that there is more.....
2007-03-29 01:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by barley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy your in a mess all you can do is cut and run and dont look back. It will be very hard to stay away but if thats how you feel you just have to cut the cord and dont give in to the urge. Good luck with that.
2007-03-29 01:05:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing is to be honest you are with this girl for three
years and it so.so. that not good. why would you waste your
time and her for sex. that not a good reason to stay in any
reattionship, trust me sex is not everything, what about love
honestly.. it sound like you need to truly look at what this really
is and do what is right for everyone involved. both of you
deseve to be with people that you love, not lust after.
2007-03-29 01:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a pig for staying in the relationship just for sex.you will never be happy.
2007-03-29 02:02:54 · answer #6 · answered by Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is not all there is to a relationship
2007-03-29 01:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by cheche_1957 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep her... YEEEEEEEEEE HAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
2007-03-29 01:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by georga darling 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋