is sex befor marige wrong?
why / why not
2007-03-28 17:56:41 · 7 answers · asked by frosty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're doing it right it is.
2007-03-28 18:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Alot of people would say no and some would say yes
In the end it all depends on your own views and if you are ready for it
You have to be able to deal with all the emotional part of it as well
For me it is not wrong if you only have sex when you are ready and not with multiple partners
And do keep in mind about 30 years ago people got married when they were like 18 and they started to have sex so it is only natural to want sex at the age of 18 and older and not younger
2007-03-28 20:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi frosty, I would reserve my comment whether its wrong or right, but I feel in todays society marriage has lost its meaning. Nobody really knows what marriage is really about. I am not saying I know it all. But having been through the "hormone charged" days I have the benefit of hindsight. Let me put it this way. Sex is a sacred act. Ooooh you might say. Sacred ? Spiritual ? Okay I back up. I say it this way. Sex is the ultimate expression of physical union that symbolises an Inward union of 2 soul mates, united in mind, body and soul. Entwined into one. Sex is but the signature to an inward bond. Okay now that i say it. Marriage is that union of 2 soul mates. Best of friends in trust and purity. Marriage is not even the paper you sign or the vow you made. Marriage goes deeper than that. Its a resolve to dissolve into another permanently in this life. When men go to prostitute they defile their spirit by becoming one with her. Imagine eveyone has a differnt "colour" spirit. Every time you have sex you are signing yourself. Everytime adding colours to your soul. After awhile it becomes black. And then we think what happen with our life. So now you make your own judgement. Minus the TV induced sex culture etc. Return to naivity.
2007-03-29 03:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
these days sex before marriage isn't that frowned upon, in fact now it seen as socially almost acceptable.
It all depends what ur beliefs are, as a Christan, yes its wrong because the Bible says that sex should be shared between man &wife, its an act which signifies them becoming one, one body.
then if u never plan to get married u should stay pure. Sex was is meant for marriage.
2007-03-28 19:39:41 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Toxic21. As a Christian I believe that God created us to join together ultimately as husband and wife, and to share and enjoy sex.
Society seems to consider sex as some form of sport. It places a lot of emphasis on the need to be good at sex, it promotes tools to help you be better at sex, it encourages you to try out for different teams, and even play for the opposition.
And all this is a lie! Sex is not a sport. It is the ultimate, intimate form of communication, and that's why it's designed to be shared with only one. I look forward to finding my husband, and having a wonderful marriage and sex life with him. Until then, I am happy to wait.
God Bless,
B
2007-03-29 18:12:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is not wrong if you love the person you are with than do it. also a person can only stay horny for so long
2007-03-29 12:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by rrdowney2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would it be? It's nature honey!
2007-03-29 06:22:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋