And to my suprise he feels the same way. But how do I know that he's for real about it? I mean we already slept together and we've only hung out with eachother several times... We hung out last night and he said he wants me to be his girl. But why would he want me when I have nothing... I mean literally nothing, I'm only 20 years of age with one child (2 yrs. old), I just got a my job like one week ago (so that means I have no money yet.), I have an apartment through section 8, and I'm under foodstamp program. why would he be so interrested in me? He's in the Millitary and he's very good looking.... I need some answers..... Please help me figure out what it is before I end up ruinning something that could eventually bloom into something good.....................................................
2007-03-28 17:54:53 · 10 answers · asked by ~*~ ChAr~*~... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to relax and get some self confidence. You have to quit thinking negative and talking negative. Nobody likes to hang around negative people. Be your self and be proud of what your doing. If you feel and act unworthy that is how people will treat you. A positive attitude is very attractive.
2007-03-28 18:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by saturn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
I am in the navy and just too happened to meet my fiancé in the navy too. So I know all about military men. At the time I was only 17 and he was 24! When he asked me out I could not understand what he saw in me. I knew we had great chemistry and spending time together was a blast but when it came down to it I could not see why he was so in love with me. I learnt to just trust his judgment and since then have grown to have more confidence and even learn a little more about myself. So just trust this guy. There is nothing wrong with having a child and being on the food stamp program. I can guarantee that he sees more in you than that. So have a little more confidence in yourself.
I must say though, if he is in the military you got to keep in mind that they shall be sending him from place to place. Is he reserve or Reg. Force? If you are going to start a relationship with him make sure you are ready to be left for long periods of time. It takes allot of trust and you don’t want to get hurt. Go with your gut feeling and if you really like this guy go with the flow and see where things take you. You never know, he may be the one you spend the rest of your life with.
2007-03-29 01:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok with all that said and done whats the problem? is he supposed to love you for all you feel you dont have versus what you do have and thats probably a nice personality, smarts, and beauty. just because your on all of these different federally funded programs doesn meant your not about anything. every one must crawl before they walk so i cant knock you for this. you would be surprised to know how many people in this world start off the same way you are. anyways make sure this man is good to your child most of all. if this is a good man you better jump out there and get him.before someone else does. go get your man girl.
2007-03-29 01:09:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun you are getting your sh*t together, stop getting down on yourself! You won't be always be on section 8 or collecting food stamps. You've got yourself a job and you are working hard at changing your situation. Heck some 40 year olds can't even do what you are doing!
Give yourself a lil pat on the back, you have a great future ahead of you....if only you believe in yourself a lil more :) He sees in you what you cannot see in yourself.
LOOK FORWARD and try not to doubt yourself.
Best of luck and I do hope this man fills your life and your lil one's life with love and light. Peace.
2007-03-29 01:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by Melek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll know when a guy cares about you through his actions and not just through words
you'll know when he loves you because of the way he looks at you
2007-03-29 01:00:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go out with him!!!!! it does not matter what you have!!! if the guy like you then thats that! if you don't do something about it like be his girl then you might lose your chance and be depressed for awhile
2007-03-29 01:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by missmamabear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably just likes you because of the way you are so try not to worry why so much and just enjoy it good luck :)
2007-03-29 00:58:59 · answer #7 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought that he just may love you? It happens everyday, dear.
2007-03-29 00:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with you? date this guy and stop worrying about why he likes you! be happy that he does like you and go with it
2007-03-29 00:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by Chris M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wtf is your problem honey? be his girl! maybe he sees in you what you cant see or dont see in yourself...go for it, what do you have to lose...you aint got shyte right??
2007-03-29 00:59:44 · answer #10 · answered by Evie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋