i just began my relationship with my boyfriend Z, a few weeks ago. we met in a class and since he already didn't study there and futher his studies some where else, so it's seldom for me to see him anymore..then, his bestfriend, A still study there n ithink i fall for him. i just realize that when my friend told me that i've been starring him for quite a time and i've been talking bout him..since ,my boyfriend is no longer on my side so i think i fall for A...the question is how should i tell my boyfriend and at the same time not ruin A and Z friendship??
2007-03-28 17:53:40 · 13 answers · asked by denise 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw, Z is a flirt..
2007-03-28 18:23:29 · update #1
Wow, that sounds complicated. Make sure the one you really like is A, not Z. Are you sure you dont have anymore feelings for Z? Z might feel vengeful as you dumped him for his friend that spent more time with you. However, if you really think that it is A that you wish to date, then maybe you should make your feelings known to A first, and see what he has to say. There's no need to ruin your relationship with Z just yet, but see what you have. Maybe, in the end A might feel that same way as you, and Z might slowly understand. However, it is best that you dont get with A immediately after yu break up with Z. All the best (:
2007-03-28 17:59:38 · answer #1 · answered by dahhlingg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best to leave A and Z alone. There is too many guys on the planet to ruin the friendship these guys have. Drop A and Z and search through B thru Y. Your bound to find something interesting there.
2007-03-28 18:00:13 · answer #2 · answered by mr_blackfish1999 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young and this is what dating is all about. The word boyfriend is being flung around here a litte to casually. Just because you bedded a guy doesn't mean he is your boyfriend. (I assume that is what you meant when you said you "started a relationship" ) Let A and Z work out there own problems. Its too bad you are too lazy to find a guy outside of this circle, but then you are still learning.
2007-03-28 18:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know do you really think his friend will go for just cuz there friends. I don't think so if he's a true friend. Than I think what will happen is in the end Z won't want you back and A will just reject you. Than u will regret everything. think about it.
2007-03-28 17:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by Mir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i can say is that cheating isnt the best answer and i understand your not, but if you dont love your boyfriend and your falling for his best friend then nothings going to work out in the end.
2007-03-28 18:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. You have already hurt their friendship. Just go for Z and tell A. U're a home wrecker.
2007-03-28 17:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by Scpwnz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be contented with one. One has enough problems to deal and you can't split yourself up to date another right? So don't be greedy or else you will lose both and end up with none.
2007-03-28 18:00:03 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, if ur still with ur boyfriend and you tell him he'll probably get mad. Maybe you could just be friends with the both of them so they don't fight. Cuz that happened to me. (It wasn't pretty!)
2007-03-28 17:57:35 · answer #8 · answered by Gingy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dun want to ruin their friendship, then stay quiet. theres no way that if they know the truth, thew definately will fight.
2007-03-28 17:57:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think z already have another girl. you should tell him the truth. it will makes you feel better.
2007-03-28 17:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by joker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋