So there's this guy in one of my classes...4 mos. ago, he was soo quiet....he seemed quiet but opened up when i started talking to him. I've been in the same class with him almost 4 months. 2 days ago, I noticed he was staring at me. twice in two days. Today, I sat next to him and he was joking a bit with me, making me laugh. He remembers little details i posted on facebook it seemed sweet but slightly creepy. He and I have a few mutual friends, and I know these friends are smart trustworthy people. But I don't really know anything about him...and he and i live in the same enormous dorm building and he said he lived in one part of it and asked which part of it I lived. was he being friendly or creepy? He is quiet and seems nice, but could he be a scary stalker? Should I be scared? He's 1year older. And I've never had a bf before. When is it appropriate for two to start dating? Is it ok to start dating if you barely know ea other outside class, and only have 5 mutual friends?
2007-03-28 17:51:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a guy, I can say he probably likes you. When he looks at you, does he look into your eyes, for 3 seconds or so, and then look away? That's a good sign. Does he smile sincerely when he sees you? Another good one. The sites below have good info on this topic.
2007-03-28 18:01:51 · answer #1 · answered by Tutorial Finder Guy... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just seems like hes crushing on you, nothing out of the ordinary. If I like a girl, I stare just a wee little bit but not enough for them to notice. He seems interested in you, I doubt hes a creepy stalker BUT you never know, if your having second thoughts about his personality you need to get to know him better before you consider him as a potential boyfriend.
2007-03-29 00:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by T boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to start dating - you can just make plans to do something with him, with or without your friends. If you want to get to know him more but aren't comfortable going out on a formal date, why not create a night out for everyone so you can hang out. Go bowling, or to dinner, or to a performance or movie. he's not being creepy - he just researched you because he likes you and doesnt know you! unless he does something that makes you unhappy or something you told him not to, he's just persuing the chance to get to know you better.
2007-03-29 00:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax he wants to be friends or maybe somthin more but he definately not a stalker. i have never herd of some guy that pays thousands of dollars to go to college to stalk on gurls he is tryin to be open up to you. to him it seems that u guys are friends, a friend can't ask where u live?
2007-03-29 00:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by UNC fan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya its find to start dating, and from the way you described hes not a scary stalker,
2007-03-29 00:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your over reacting, he just likes you. are you gonna be afraid because someone has the courage to flirt with you? hes just being friendly, what do you want him to do? ignore you?
2007-03-29 00:55:52 · answer #6 · answered by kilbo49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it....
2007-03-29 00:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by canada eh? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get him, hon! you never know wat its like until you try it yourself.
2007-03-29 00:55:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋