I don't have any evidence, merely a hunch, but there's this girl. I chased her for, seriously, probably a year. NOTHING ever happened, she wasn't into it. Fine, things worked out great, cause I absolutely adore my gf now, she's so good to me and for me...So, anyways, this other girl was a friend, knew her for some time before I developed any feelings for her, so we still talk occasionally, maybe have a few drinks after work (we both work evening jobs). I cannot stress enough, I don't want anything to happen between us and I use all the "So me and the gf did this" sorta stuff in front of her. But, the last couple of times I've seen her, she asked me if I might want to have a cocktail after work but she neglected to tell me that various girls (2 diff ones so far) that I had interest in, even before her, were wherever she was. I know it may sound confusing and I hope I'm only being paranoid, but might she do it on purpose? If so, what's the advantage/gain?
2007-03-28 17:39:46 · 1 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes i say it is on purpose-no advantage or gain but just because even though she didnt want you when you kept chasing her all that time i guarentee she was flattered by it and it built her ego-now that she sees you really do care for someone else she is jealous in a strange way-she will casue trouble if you allow her to you need to go out with your g/f now and stop hanging out with her
2007-03-28 17:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋