Ok well theres this boy i like. I'm about to ask him out but i'm afraid he will say no! && i have no idea what to say!Worst of all he's my ex botfriend's bestfriend! I don't like him just to get revenge i seriously like what do i say?
2007-03-28 17:35:11 · 4 answers · asked by killer.bebe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is a no no boo, you can't do that just yet would you like it if your ex went out with your best friend, just try to be friends with the guy first and see how he feels about you before you go exposing your self out there, cause guys do talk and some guys are loyal to their friends. So be careful but I wouldn't do it if I were you.
2007-03-28 17:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by Kbella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey...i just suggest hanging out with him. does he like you? you dont ask him out if you don't even know each other or each others feelings.
if you dont know how he feels, why would you think of asking? you need to know them first.
next: He IS your EX boyfriends, BEST friend. Your ex probably told him many things about you. sorry. thats what people do.
you should hang out first and see if you CAN date each other.
then theres the EX boyfriend factor. does he still like you? who broke up with whom? if you broke up with him then- it doesn't matter. if he broke up with you...and you really aren't handing revenge out- then just hang out with the guy you like, and see what happens.
ps. not trying to get your hopes up...or kill it...advise : if your interested in your Ex's friend. GOOOD LUCK . most guys wouldnt do that to their friends and go out with the ex girlfriend especially a BEST friend. Its not right. sorry. but you may have a different situation.
2007-03-29 00:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by Jon S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do that.
If you're young enough to be on here asking this question, then the boy is young enough that he might not resist you - he is your ex's best bud - don't mess that up. He SHOULD say no, but he might not.
Find somebody else.
Besides, you're a chick, you're not SUPPOSED to ask us out, you're supposed to GET us to ask YOU out.
2007-03-29 00:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only young once, if you like him go for it! What is that worst he can do...Say no? Trust me 10 years from now you won't care if he said no but you might have some terrific memories if he says YES!
2007-03-29 00:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋