a good job, good head on my shoulders, I have integrity, honesty a and am well respected. I attend church regularly and have many hobbies, friends...people seem to like me. I get along well with others on my job and have regular outings with friends but my question is...why can't I find someone to date? I am not unattractive and I truly am a kind person, can someone help?
2007-03-28 17:26:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are leaving something out but I don't know what. But you go to church so that tells me God has a very special person for you and you do not know who it is yet, Hang in their he will reveal her to you and she will be worth the wait, remember Job what he went thru? thank God you don't have to go that far. Keep up your faith and it will attract The person God wants you to be with, pray brother.
2007-03-28 17:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by Right 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wish I could help. I have wondered the same thing for years, because I can say the exact same thing you just said for my case, almost word for word. I have yet to find an answer. My current belief is that women are not looking for the nice guy. They are looking for the macho guy. And it will take something bad happening with the macho guy to make them realize that they truly want a nice guy. Until then, though, women seem to be thinking more with hormones than their head or heart. Good luck man.
2007-03-29 00:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by Ed Smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know that when you want to meet someone real bad for a relationship, when you go there with your mind set that way, basically you're trying too hard. What you need to do is NOT to think about it so much!
Like they say, when you aren't looking for someone, "they" find you! That's how it seems to go.
But, keep doing what you're doing by going on the outings with friends and allow yourself to have fun and before long someone will "cross your path" and ask you out! Think positive! it works!
2007-03-29 00:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by julesrules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Audacity, always audacity." This is just my opinion, but I think you need to be a little more bold about this. I mean, you can put on the best show you want, and I'd be impressed if I knew you in real life, but sometimes you have to say something like "Hey, some friends and I were planning on going to this concert, and I thought that maybe you might like to come along." It's not overly blatant, but it helps to show that you're interested, and that goes a long way.
2007-03-29 00:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy to walk up to someone who knows exactly who and what they are if you yourself dont know! My advice would be to relax and wait for the person who is as self assured as you are comes along...
2007-03-29 00:31:23 · answer #5 · answered by babyangeleyez17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmpppp so whats wrong u have all the qualities a guy could ask for?
2007-03-29 00:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by sugarspice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋