what should i do if i found out that my boyfriend is gay?? and he was only going out with me to see that if he met the right girl he would be ungay...... WHAT SHOULD I DO??? THAT IS SO GROSS BUT I DONT WANNA HURT HIS FEELINGS
2007-03-28 17:21:55 · 13 answers · asked by georga darling 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ummmm we already broke up but im afraid it will rurien my rep.
what should i do bout that
2007-03-28 17:28:32 · update #1
Well, I would probably break up with him. Ask him if he got what he needed out of his experiment with you.
2007-03-28 17:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by poweranni 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Could it be that maybe he is/was confused and trying to figure this whole thing out. Maybe he doesn't want to be homasexual and thinks or has been told all his life it is wrong. Be supportive of him, be his friend.If it was you what would you want him to do tell you eewww thats gross we can't be friends? No you would still want to be friends so why should it be any different for him? If he now knows he is homasexual I dont think telling him you just want to be friends is going to hurt his feelings. I have many guys friends who are homasexual and I wouldn't trade them for a female as a friend.
2007-03-29 00:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by sherri k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you find out from him or someone else? personally if I were you I would set him down and just talk to him about it. because thats really the only way your gonna know for sure. and My personal thoughts is if someones gay they cant become ungay... maybe hes bi and is trying to do right. just possibleitlies just talk to him about it and see what happens, and what he says then im sure you know what to do!
2007-03-29 00:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by Stacey22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right to be upset, it not about hurting his feeling it about him being honest with you from the beginning, he should have told you what was going on. you deserve that.
but know you need to let go and move on. he has some issues that only he need to deal. with. i dont believe that you
can get ungay. but he need to deal not you.
2007-03-29 00:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG...I Think u should just leave him...its not worth the drama...give him time to himself and let him figure out what he wants...if he comes back its because he realizes he wants u, but dont if not and he is still being gay, forget him!
2007-03-29 00:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by daisy3sjc 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea maybe but feel glad he chose you to see if he would be straight.
But he also used you
he should have told you
you should stay friends and support eachother though.
2007-03-29 00:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by Clarity. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do all the things you would do with a normal boyfriend, just don't hook up with him, gay guys make great shopping companions and such
2007-03-29 00:28:07 · answer #7 · answered by Chris M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is pretty gross but people are who they are. you shouldn't be mean about it just try and be his friend he will probably appreciate the support good luck :)
2007-03-29 00:28:43 · answer #8 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ugh leave him! He totally used you! Dont feel bad!
2007-03-29 00:26:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would be friends with him instead and be supportive of his decision he probably needs someone on his side
2007-03-29 00:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋