It was supposed to be the first time having sex with my new girlfriend last night, and when she took her pants off she had a penis.
Now I don't consider myself gay, but he/she is a great person, and that dick of her's actually made me aroused. I was afraid to do anything so we didn't have sex at all.
Should I call this relationship off?
2007-03-28 17:17:16 · 6 answers · asked by Mitchell H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie,that is a tough situation.I would assume that your partner would speak to you before hand,and let you know this detail.This is something that should have been stated before you two got serious.I would sit down and have a long talk with your partner.No one can tell you to call this relationship off,or whether you "should" call it off.You simply need to decide whether this is something that really bothers you.If it does,then maybe you two are best as friends.If it doesnt,i dont see how this would be a problem for you.You must decide for yourself,as no one can decide for you,no one knows what you are feeling/thinking besides you.Re-Evaluate your relationship and decide if it is worthy of a second chance.Good luck hun,and have a good night.
2007-03-28 17:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide about the relationship on your own. You have to live with your decisions, not us... Really, if you know everything about her(and if she is living as a her you should call her that), and you can live with that than go for it!
Think of it this way... She trusted you, so much that she let you know what is probably her biggest secret. That is awesome. Good luck but in the end you have to make that call.
2007-03-29 00:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously? how long have you been with her-him? and you didnt know? but anyways only you know if you wont to call it off, I mean you may not consider your self gay....i mean your the only person who knows how you feel. we cant anwern that for you.
2007-03-29 00:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by Stacey22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! that gotta suck so freakin bad...i bet your mind was goin....."hell yea, im gettin laid...yea!!!!! WTF!!!! She's got a DICK!!!" i feel srry for u dude, if you're not gay....why even bother....people will find out about her little problem sooner or later, and i wouldnt want to be that guy dating him/her.....but if you're cool with people knowing that you are dating a shemale, then stay with him/her lol
GOOD LUCK!!!
(God i hope that never happens to me)
2007-03-29 00:33:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your just bi- continue the relationship and have fun
2007-03-29 00:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone, why should it matter what shape their genitals are?
2007-03-29 00:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by Spyderbear 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋