I meet this guy through a friend &.. things were pretty slow at the 1st but we're friends now & i've been told by my friend's friend that he likes me a couple of times now. & so my friend told me i should ask him to do something with me and i did (there was no pressure i asked him 'coz i was interested as well) but anywhos i went out with him. I caught him looking deeply into my eyes for a while, i glance once hold the gaze for a few seconds (since i'm really shy) then looked away but looked back again & he was still looking! i got nervous when he stares at me like that. (i was about to say your making me nervous, is that a good thing to say to a guy if he's looking deeply at you?) thing is how do i tell him i like as well? do i just randomly say on msn ..hey i like you! or do i have to personally say it to him? and when i say to him what happens after? awkward silence or ...?
2007-03-28 17:16:58 · 10 answers · asked by gigi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 18 yrs old & really shy and quiet, I haven't been with anyone before so I wouldn't really have a clue how this works.
Thank you a lot in advance for your help. =]
2007-03-28 17:20:06 · update #1
Just be Honest and be your self. Tell him how you feel. (In person) He will respect you more for it.
2007-03-28 17:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by samiam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally is better ... go to a nice silent spot for a date and casually say it. Don't worry about the silence, just smile.
You also ask if he like you, since you looks at you deeply. and then say that you like him.
If you feel shy, then you can sms/msn him.
2007-03-29 00:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know him more..find out what his interests are...what sports he's into (basketball? baseball? hockey?) who's his fav. band(music)...what movies he likes...then say I want to see that movie too (opening for him to know you're interested and perhaps he'll say Why don't we go see it together)~ You can have this convo on msn if you feel more comfortable. When you do hook up to go to a show or have pizza together or whatever........just be yourself. Have fun* Think of it as going out for an afternoon with a really good friend*! You don't have to "feel " awkward...he'll be feeling the same things you are. Just enjoy yourself and be yourself. GoodLUck*
2007-03-29 00:22:30 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him what his staring at....do i have a hairy moustache or something,make it funny,so you will laugh....if he says that he likes you then tell him that you think his kind of cute also.being shy does'nt make you a bad person.. guys kinda like that in a girl.... good luck!!!
2007-03-29 00:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just admire him from a distance and don't make any moves until he does. Let him come to you. Good luck.
2007-03-29 00:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by Leona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I bought you some popcorn. Do you like popcorn. Then say me too. Can you like me like you like the popcorn. Very easy conversation.
2007-03-29 00:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by gettysdeemer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell directly when you meet him next time or msn also good.
2007-03-29 00:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by Tess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just pass him secret notes saying i know someone who likes you..then if hes one of your friends he will most likely tell you ....then when he wants 2 know hwho likes him go for it.
2007-03-29 00:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by rawr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its best to say it to him in person....a suggested place? not sure on that one ma'am....
best of luck to you two!
2007-03-29 00:20:36 · answer #9 · answered by yitzac1990 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he likes you, go for it and ask him!
good luck!
2007-03-29 00:20:20 · answer #10 · answered by ty808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋