I can only be me, I'm a decent guy (well I try anyway), but heartache always seems to find me. When she came into my life it was beautful for a while, we had good times, I made mistakes that I reget , but I don't see what I did that was so wrong. One thing she said was that things went too fast, that she wasn't ready. When times were good, we asked each other if we thought things were going too fast and we both said no. I noticed changes in her, but she wouldn't say what was wrong,I finally got her to tell me on Christmas night. It tore me up inside and still effects me now, I still care about her, never felt about anyone else the way that she made me feel. Hard thing about it is that we work at the same place, luckily shes on a different shift. I go to the same church too, it's hard seeing her there too, but I don't want to go to a differnt church. we don't really talk now, other than a rare hello, it's like nothing ever happened. I'd love to talk to her , be her friend again
2007-03-28 17:11:32 · 6 answers · asked by Doug T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the question is? and without details, we could never answer your question.
2007-03-28 17:15:29 · answer #1 · answered by Chrystopher P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
[Chystopher P, that's not enough information for you? Reads like "TMI" to me...]
(1) Be true to yourself. Don't try to be something you're not.
(2) Respect yourself. Don't try to be self-effacing to get a woman to think that you're a "gentleman." Women don't respect men who don't respect themselves. (That is I think what happens to "nice guys.") Still, it's important to be courteous and respectful and considerate; women appreciate respect and attention. Just don't be an obsequious doormat. In other words, be a man, not a puppy.
(3) This one got away. That happens. Let her go. She isn't for you; she's for somebody else. There's another one out there for you, at some later time. Move on, so that it can happen.
2007-03-29 00:25:09 · answer #2 · answered by Paul O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys don't finish last, they just styop to let the other guys go first. Alot of the time, the nice guys are too shy and are afraid to stand up for themselves, so they get pushed all over (not trying to be offensive). Make sure everythings equal, keep on being the great guy and fight for whatever you believe in.
Don't let girls get you down, trust me, I've let guys get me down, you feel like crap afterwards. Keep your chin up, don't go looking for relationships, let the relationship find you.
And trust me, when you meet her, she'll knock you back so hard you'll know shes meant to be your girl
2007-03-29 00:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by toronto_leafs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, I had to ask myself this once (b/c I used to think that way myself and, even still, those thoughts creep up in my head from time to time). Why do I expect it's not going to work out and what would happen if I thought it could? It's all about perspective. You have to believe in both of you.
2007-03-29 00:18:51 · answer #4 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the people who cheat in their marrages usually finish the divorce "First" over the guy whos isnt cheating and just has a divorce due to personal reasons.
Another way to think about it.
2007-03-29 00:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most nice guys finish last is because their to shy and dont have the confadence to tell the women in their lifes what they want and how they truly feel.
2007-03-29 00:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋