I am terribly confused. Have said nothing. My closest friends and people that I live with have picked up on the situation and have said that I am playing a couple of men. I think of these men as my friends, but lately, meeting up for drinks seems to lead into dinner dates and things. I am unsure of how I feel and I two of the men know each other quite well, and I have made sure that each of them know that the other is in my life. I'm so confused... What do you think??? Should I go for it and see where it goes, or should I just withdraw completely. I am extremely attracted to one physically, but the other is also good looking and one of the nicest (albeit a little eccentric) guys I have ever met in my life.
2007-03-28 16:57:18 · 9 answers · asked by smile_girl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if both guys are aware that you are not exclusive with either one and they are both cool with that then leave things as they are until one day you will finally realize that you only want one of them or maybe neither
2007-03-28 17:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by james s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have done a right thing by making sure that both knows about each other. Now you can take your time to make the decision. for the final decision, I'd consider who will be a longtime partner ... i.e. whom do you see in say 20 year time with you (considering how you two will evolve)
2007-03-29 00:07:55 · answer #2 · answered by Sean 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not doing anything wrong..they both know about eachother....
...let one of them figure it out...why do you feel so pushed to do something about it??
if you were "playing" these men..they wouldnt be aware of each other...
go with the one who most generous to you physically, romantically, and financially
2007-03-29 00:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by Evie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey you've made no promises. And you've been very open and honest with two of them. There's nothing wrong with dating/hanging out with a few guys. Enjoy it, see if you grow interested in any of them. Keep it casual and be honest and your good.
2007-03-29 00:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by katiebeth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take your time gurl!maybe both of them are not really your type at all!meeting other guys and doing out with them are not bad its just that you should know when to stop especialy when a certain person will get hurt by your actions...be more open minded...and make sure your always safe with the one you go out to....enjoy dating!
2007-03-29 00:01:34 · answer #5 · answered by shen tiao 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy it...if they both know then who cares what others say. Sooner or later u will figure out which one you want to be exclusive with as long as you are honest then don't worry about it.
2007-03-29 00:04:46 · answer #6 · answered by sss_1122 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"things"...I think we know what that means, you dirty little girl...you are having fun and you're just torn because you've been programed by society and family to believe its immoral for girls to behave that way...that notion is so outdated...play them both and make it exciting, make 'em try out, and follow all your momentary desires, you have the rest of your life to be resonsible and "lady-like", do whats FUN!!!
2007-03-29 00:06:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have a problem!!! Follow your heart. Not others opinion in this case at least.
2007-03-29 00:00:50 · answer #8 · answered by Arnab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm....gotta love those love triangles lol....you need to make that choice on your own. ...only you can decide. They all know about each other...so what is it YOU want???
2007-03-29 00:02:06 · answer #9 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋