i've only asked one girl out, and she said yes and we went out. but the next time made an excuse then stopped calling and we're friends now.
2007-03-28 16:56:05 · 21 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I'm 25 and I have only been on one date. It's because I'm shy, and I get nervous around guys.
So, most people probably think we are losers!
But I'm not going to believe it. LOL!
I say go at your own pace.
2007-03-28 16:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by MEQ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im 20 aswell, never been out on a date myself, well at least not in the context of what you're talking about. Its all about waiting another year or two....... then ...... getting married. Standard. Have kids and develop the family. Its the norm in my culture, we look for the long term solution. I say, wouldn't it be nice to just get married without the initial expensive dating and all the rest of it. No offence mate, but cultures are different everywhere, my one is simple. There is no stigma attached to anyone who hasn't yet dated. But hey, don't get too worked up about your situation, you'll find someone, just when you least expect it. Trust.
2007-03-29 00:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by MU.SK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No 20 is not too old to have been on one date. When the timing is right you'll have more dates, but why speed up the process, when it's the quality of the date that matters more than the quantity.
If you feel that you need to date more, then go for it, otherwise, take your time.
2007-03-28 23:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by T esira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that one incident didn't stop you from asking another girl out. Everyone experiences rejection. Actually, a certain degree of rejection is probably a good thing. Be a man and ask other girls out. Develop the attitude that if they say no its no big thing. It just means you don't have to waste time and money figuring out that the girl wasn't meant for you. Move on. There are girls out there waiting for guys to ask them. Go find those girls!
2007-03-29 00:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're doing fine, man. You had the stones to ask a girl out, and you're mature enough to handle rejection if you're still friends with that girl. Keep at it. You're doing everything right, and NO, 20 is not too old to just be getting started. You didn't miss much during the teen years. Trust me.
Good luck.
2007-03-29 00:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by Retodd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone here or anywhere else tell you what is right for YOU. If your comfortable with who you are and ok with not dating alot don't feel pressured to. If you want to date, ask someone else you like out
Dating in general is good for social development though. I don't date much myself, but it's not by choice, more by circumstance. Just go with the flow, and focus on making and keeping friends in general. If they happen to be "girlfriends" all the better.
Good Luck!
2007-03-29 00:01:52 · answer #6 · answered by Kurius_Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my best friends is 21 and just started dating. Its all good, everyones different. Your time will come!! Just be yourself and try to put yourself in more situations where you'll meet new people!! And dont be afraid to ask MORE girls out, you might be pleased with their answer, you never know. Don't be afraid!! Whats the worst that could happen??
2007-03-29 00:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
20 isn't too old at all. You are in a better position to make good judgement about the girls you date.
2007-03-29 00:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by K R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are friends..true friends ...then ask her if she has any g/f that you can hook up with..
truly,,if it don't bother you to not date...why worry about it?
a lot of marriages fail and the ones that do not fail are mostly unhappy...maybe you are better off just keeping women as a friend as when you get married you gain a spouse but sometimes lose your best friend..i know that's true?
2007-03-29 00:00:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope you should worry about getting your life together before worrying about dating. Once everything else is on your side then you can meet new people and get more dates!
2007-03-28 23:59:40 · answer #10 · answered by chunkysmom3502 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋