i know it sounds stupid but i was a virgin b4 this
2007-03-28 16:55:38 · 26 answers · asked by Allie P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start thinking of names for the baby! Yeah, stupid. You really need to use some form of reliable birth control.
2007-03-28 17:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a darn good chance of you getting pregnant using this method. There is always sum pre sperm before the main event and that is plenty enough to swim the channel and make you a mommy. It really only takes one, so you should go to a doctor and get some proper protection. You should also be more careful with using condoms as unless you have had this guy tested prior to having sex with him, how do you know where he has been. There are some nasty things you can catch that you really wouldnt want.
2007-03-29 00:02:00 · answer #2 · answered by auburn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Withdrawl is 76-95% effective depending on the man's self control and him knowing when he is about to go. I have known someone who used this method for 3 years and did not get pregnant, and I have known one who did get pregnant. Depends on the man and also on the amount of precum he has (however, most men's precum never contains sperm). One thing that helps is for him to pee before sex, because this will clear any sperm that may be left over from the last time you had sex. You could buy spermicide too or rinse yourself out after and that may help your chances. If you don't use condoms because he can't feel anything then go to www.ripnroll.com and order Inspiral, Crown, Kimono, or Okamoto brands and they will really help him. Hope I helped, good luck!
2007-03-29 00:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by gab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called coitus interruptus. Here's what Wikipedia says about it:
"Like many methods of birth control, reliable effectiveness is achieved only by correct and consistent use. Observed failure rates of withdrawal vary depending on the population being studied: studies have found actual failure rates of 15-28% per year....For couples that use withdrawal correctly at every act of intercourse, the failure rate is 4% per year."
In other words, if he's a little slow or inconsistent, you have a *significant* chance of getting pregnant in the next year. Even if he does it perfectly every time, you have one chance in 25 of getting pregnant anyway.
Different people have different ideas about appropriate birth control measures, so you have to do what you think is right and (most of all) what gives you both peace of mind. My personal recommendation is at least a condom. In fact, before we decided to get married, we made sure we had *two* methods (like a condom and a diaphragm) so that if one failed, we were still covered.
2007-03-29 00:09:11 · answer #4 · answered by Paul O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your chances of getting pregnant are 100%. Pulling out is not a form of birth control. A man has pre-*** before he ejaculates. And the sperm can live for hours after sex. So unless your ready to have a baby use a better birth control.
BE CAREFUL!
2007-03-29 00:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by angel48wings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres still a good chance of getting preg. Even though some say that the sperm dies or doesnt reach enough. Some of it isn't true. Theres always pre-***, and you'll never know! Some of the sperm you can't even see sometimes! Go on the pill, or juse use condoms.
Better be safe than Sorry!
2007-03-28 23:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
All it takes is for the sperm to get into the vagina. Yes, it can be on the penis and rubbed near the vagina.
It's not stupid to be a virgin. It is not the brightest thing to not have done your homework regarding contraceptives.
2007-03-29 00:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by Butterflie927 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful because you can and will get pregnant this way sooner or later.What may happen is that you are lucky and dont for quiye awhile and think well hey this works fine and then bam-pregnant! Use some form of protection if you dont wnat to get pregnant
2007-03-29 00:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
High chances? C'mon people. Really. If they're doing the pullout method correctly, the chances for pregnancy are greatly reduced. Nothing is foolproof though, and you're really better off using a condom.
I doubt very seriously that she is pregnant.
2007-03-29 00:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by Retodd 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is this substance called pre-ejaculation that naturally lubricates the penis. It contains sperm. So even if he isn't coming, this pre-ejaculation still comes out and sperm are REALLY good swimmers. So basically, if the pre-ejaculation touches a wet part of your vagina, then there is a good chance you could get pregnant. Good luck!
2007-03-29 00:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋