I'm really lost with my feelings?

Question

AFTER I GOT OUT OF FOUR YEARS REALTIONSHIP .I BEEN SINGLE FOR OVER YEAR AND THIS IS WERIOD BUT I BEEN LOOKING ATCOUPLES EVERY TIME THEY PASS ME ESPECIALLY AT COLLEGE WHEN I SEE GUY WITH HIS GIRLFRIEND I DUNO I GET SAD. AND IT 'S
WERIOD CUZ I HAVENT FORGET MY EX. GIRLFREIND YET AND USALLY I DONT LOOK BUT FOR THE PAST WEEK AND HALF THAT ALL I BEEN THINKIN ABOUT GETTING GIRLFRIEND i mean i'm only 19 and i dont want to give up BUT Im FRAID THAT I WILL GET HURT AGIAN I MEAN I KNOW ALOT OF GIRLS AND MOST OF THEM HAVE CRUSH ON ME BUT I NEVER PAY THEM ANY ATTENTION ESPICALLY IN MY CLASSES AT COLLEGE I IGNORED ALOT OF GIRLS THAT WERE FLIRTING .

I CANT HELP'T BUT IT'S BOTHERING REALLY BAD I KEEP LOOKING A COUPLES HOLDING HAND AND SMILING AND I'M ALONE EVEN THAT I HAVE ALOT FRIENDS AROUND. IT JUST REALLY HARD TO FOR ME TO TRUST ANY GIRL AND IT TAKES ALOT FROM GIRL TO GET ME ATTENTION AND WOREST OF ALL IS I'M REALLY REALLY PICKY ABOUT GIRLS AND GIRLFRIEND.

WHY IS THIS HAPPENING?

Answer 1

You miss the closeness and you're lonely. Don't let a relationship get you down, focus on other things. Something I've found that always cheers me up is exercise, so go and get active. Participating in a sport or going to the gym is a great wya to meet girls as well, and who knows you may find the luck lady ready and waiting there for you.

Give it time, patience is a virture for many reasons. Look at everything You've got now, don't focus on what you miss having, what you miss will come back to you all you've gotta do is let it find you.

Keep your chin up hun, it'll get better