today we were in the car and i gave her attitude and she called me a show off or im just rude and it really hurt my feelings what should i do
2007-03-28 16:49:26 · 12 answers · asked by Calista 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Apologize for giving her attitude & maybe she'll apologize to you.
2007-03-28 16:53:45 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You already know that because of your attitude why your mother responded the way she did, but she needs to know that your feelings was hurt. You must start the communication with your mother.
Make a card and design the way you wish to express your love for your mom. Write inside how you felt when the incident occurred in the car. Let her know that she had hurt your feelings and ask her not to do it again, and offer an apologize for the attitude you gave and promise you'll try not to do it again.
Your mom will appreciate the way you handle this matter, and she should also offer an apologize to you.
God Bless
2007-03-29 00:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your mom was being rude, you still need to respect her, after all, she is the one that gave you life! You may have been in the wrong by giving her an attitude. That is very disrespectful any way, and that made you wrong as well. Giving your mom an attitude is not a way to gain her respect. If she hurt your feelings, then talk to her, why us? we don't know the situation, only you and your mom knows the real truth. But she is still your mom, and you need to show her respect, no matter what she does. Again, if she hurt your feelings, then talk to her!
2007-03-28 23:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by Ikeg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a mom. This is my side: You know when another girl at school gives you whatfor and you get all bent out of shape? Well, it is just the same for us as a Mom. You give us flack, we either count to 10 and difuse the situation, or we freek and spout off at you. Maybe we are trying to toughen you up, give you a taste of the real world when you act up and we aren't around. It is a mothers instinct to prepare you for adulthood. Either way, we want you to learn to be a lady and teach you to respect others. If we don't teach you, who will? Just go up to your mom and say "Hey, about in the car earilier, sorry. I was debriefing from school and I shouldn't have said the things I said to you. I am sorry. I know you said a few things to hurt my feelings too but I understand why you said the things you said and I will try and act more grown-up. (Any mother will forgive you and appologize to you too)
2007-03-29 00:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by lillyBme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Crystal. It sounds like you had your feelings hurt by your mother, but did you be disrespectful? Is she taking care of you, paying the bills, bearing the weight of so many responsibilities to provide and care for you? If any and or all are right on... then you should apologize to your mother. Yes, she offended you, but you need to apologize... and mean it friend. You should share your feelings with your mother, tell her how it affected you, but then tell her you apologize. Like my high school counselor told me once: You may not agree with what they're saying, but you OWE it to him/her to listen and be respectful. Agreed two wrongs don't make a right, but you are the child and you should respect your mom. She is in the process of working herself out of a job: preparing you for adulthood when you're on your own. Your mother carried you for 9 months, had aches and pains and maybe morning sickness to bring you to birth! There are issues, problems, and pains your mother may be dealing with that are unbeknownst to you. The world as a daughter in your mom's home is far, far different than the world you'll be in on your own. People don't care, and businesses don't care about your and how things affect you... it's just business to them. So do the things she asks you, love her, respect her, and you will be blessed. Life is not so easy for you now, but it'll be much less as an adult on your own. So.. c'mon... get with the program friend. Peace!
2007-03-29 00:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the one being rude. You shouldn't give your mother attitude. I don't know why it hurt your feelings. I guess you only care about yourself.
2007-03-28 23:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by crazygranny72 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why should you feel hurt when you were being rude and giving her attitude first?
2007-03-28 23:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? Don't give your mom attitude. Problem solved.
2007-03-29 01:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get over it! My mom curses me out in front of my friends, that's fuked up.
2007-03-29 00:19:07 · answer #9 · answered by richelle114 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should shut your pie hole and have a little respect for the person that supports your fatazz
2007-03-28 23:54:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋