I'm in relationship were we have huge fights, every other day. Theres no trust, we both seem to want to continue it at times, but other times we don't. I have said to myself that if the arguments don't stop occuring as much as they do I will break up with her. I just recently started thinking about a girl who i worked with alot. She's really cute and i love her personality. I had a dream me and the girl im with had another arguement, and i dated her. I've always like her, but either she was in a relationship or i was. She helped me out and talk to me when me and my gf had a huge break up period. She was dating another guy at the time and was giving me advice on how to fix my situation. I knew i like her alot then. Anyway i told her how i felt about her just today, and we are going to have dinner tomorrow. The only thing is im still with my gf of a year and half. She i dont know if she knows i still date her. Me and gf have broken dozens of times now. What should i do?
2007-03-28 16:48:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How should i break the news to gf, should i asap if i do decide it needs to be over. Also when we were broken she hurt really bad, she lied to about alot things and slept around. So there has been alot of bad issues with that as well
2007-03-28 16:54:30 · update #1
Thank you all for you comments. I think i wan't break things up with her, but whenever we broken up in the past she blows up. I want to not be so dramatic. Any advice on how to do it, how break it off, with the least amount of tears?
2007-03-28 17:01:21 · update #2
sounds like its a matter of convience and you need to say i cant do it any longer and move on
2007-03-28 16:52:30 · answer #1 · answered by prettygirl_80650 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OKAY DUMP HER!!! i have been in a relation ship just like yours accept it was a guy lol... but she is probably playing on you...be with the girl who most makes you feel confertable because if you chose the rocky road it will end with a heart break. If you really love the girl you have been with for a year and a half then call her up and tell her how you feel and that you dont appriciate her doin you like that and tell her if she cant manage makeing each other feel good than i think we should take a break and let you think about things... i hope i helped you good luck make the right choice
2007-03-28 23:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by Mizz Baby Phat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you already made plans with another girl really upsets me, because I would hate to be in your girlfriends shoes… You are already mentally cheating on your girlfriend by confiding in her intimate details; things that should be shared between two people in a relationship. Even though it did not work out between you and your current girlfriend, you should still be respectful of her feelings. Before you have dinner with your new Infatuation, you really need to talk to your girlfriend and tell her why you want to end things. She has been your girlfriend for a year! Like it or not, she is one of your closest friends. It is important that you cherish her relationship and dedication to you through the year you had been together, even thought you are ready and willing to see other people. Good luck to both of you.
2007-03-29 00:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when I first started reading your question, I thought "hey, I'm in the same situation - fighting with my boyfriend yet wanting it to continue at times." But, then when I read that you like another girl, I started thinking "I better not be like this!" If you don't like your girlfriend enough to NOT cheat on her, then please break up with her. Coming from a girl in a somewhat similar situation, if my boyfriend liked another girl and was going to go out to dinner with her, then I would want to terminate the relationship for good. So please, for her own good, dump her before you cheat on her.
2007-03-28 23:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what to do.
The fact that you have organised to go out with someone else when you are still with your gf, tells us all that the relationship is already over in your mind.
End it before it goes on for tooooo long.
2007-03-28 23:54:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
step up and be a man
make a decision
if you want to date other women, be single
if you want to be in a committed relationship, it takes work!!
if this new interest knows you are with someone else and you end up with her...do you really think she is ever going to trust you??
don't sell your gf short or yourself for that matter.
make a decision and stick to it. be honest with yourself even if you cant be honest to the women in your life.
2007-03-28 23:55:45 · answer #6 · answered by Evie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break it off with your current girlfriend before you start dating others.
Both women might appreciate that.
2007-03-28 23:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by a person 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a sleeze. Break up before you start the other thing. Even if it is just dinner it is wrong.
2007-03-28 23:53:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship is too dramatic. move on and try to create less chaos in your life. It's more fun to have a life that is tranquil.
2007-03-28 23:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by Cavaillon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go on your dinner date....and break up with the one you argue with.
2007-03-28 23:53:00 · answer #10 · answered by uz2bafrk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋