I haven't talked to a girl I missed for 11 months. We were only friends for four months but I really liked her and eventually fell in love with her. Last week I tried to talk to her for the 1st and last time, for if she still didn't want to talk to me anymore. She didn't as she completely ignored me. After the day I tried to talk to her I never said another word to her. Five days later-yesterday-a teacher pulled me out of class and took me to an administrator's office, explaining that the girl went to her about me that day and told me to please leave her alone. She told me the girl's mom called the school about me. The teacher said "It's not that she doesn't like you, it's that she doesn't like you in that way." I resolved to move on from her completely and not say anything to her today, which is her 17th birthday. I'm older by about 2 months. The way the teacher talked to me makes it seem like the girl was trying to make me out into a harassing stalker by omitting how many times I actually tried to talk to her. The teacher didn't know until I told her I only tried to talk to her once in almost a year. Whenever we have the same lunch I'm always with a friend (guy) in a line and she always goes with a girlfriend in the next line and always stands to where she's facing me. I used to catch her looking at me. I started getting smarter a while ago and asking my friend to look for me and he would say she's looking right at me when I'm not looking at her. On today, her birthday, we had the same lunch and she STILL does the same thing, even though yesterday she told the teacher on me, she still stood where she was facing me and snuck looks in my direction when I wasn't looking. I kept my back to her the whole time. I feel bad about not saying anything to her and not telling her happy birthday today. I had to remind one of her friends I made friends with that today was her birthday. She said she heard what happened and she thinks I was wrong for trying to talk to the girl.
2007-03-28 16:47:41 · 8 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The "her" in the question is mainly the girl I still love (which is the reason I'm letting her go since she's unhappy around me it seems) but it could also be about her and her birthday-forgetting friend.
2007-03-28 16:49:56 · update #1
Also, the "we" in the paragraph is me and the girl, not me and the teacher.
2007-03-28 16:53:42 · update #2
If she went so far as to "report" you, stay away from her, don't talk to her. She's probably looking at you because she thinks you want to talk to her, she's "aware" of you and is like keeping an eye on you. I don't understand why she would have reported you, that's a bit extreme. She sounds like trouble so forget her.
2007-03-28 16:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by strawberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems this girl is bit of a control freak and wanted to see how easy it was to get you into trouble. Why bother with her? There are HEAPS of other chicky-babes out there for you, forget her. If you REALLY want to wish her happy birthday, slip a card in her school locker.
2007-03-28 23:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Mysterious ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her dose of medicine... ignore her and don't try to reach her out, after she did to you,as if you are stalker. she is not worth, try to find a girl that will suit to you. don't show your feelings and pretend that your not affected to her presence. i don't like the way she is doing and i don't know also what she like. seems she like you also. better forget her and move on.
2007-03-28 23:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by taurust_girl27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude just drop her. obviously she's gonna look ur way b/c she thinks u're stalkin her- trust me girls do dat. i kno b/c i had a stalker & whenever he's around i look his way just to c if he's looking at me. it just makes u uncomfortable & ur instinct tells u to KEEP AN EYE ON UR STALKER; but u shud reallly back off. dude she told the tr abt it, had her mom call the school...doesnt dat say something???? just leave her alone b4 this goes further. obviously she doesnt like u dat way
MOVE ON!!!
2007-03-28 23:56:51 · answer #4 · answered by delicious_d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask again, with PARAGRAPHS. We dont want to read 50 lines of words.
2007-03-28 23:52:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to do what ghandi does non violent protest, I would reccomend reading red badge of courage and climbing a mountian if you want to get her back otherwise, just move to wisconsin.
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2007-03-29 00:55:32 · answer #6 · answered by JuliusRomans 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you even bothering talking about her??? Just move on and keep ignoring her....
2007-03-28 23:57:56 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is effin "crazy" man. stay away!!
2007-03-28 23:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋