2007-03-28 16:41:07 · 25 answers · asked by deleted user 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
No, I would not send a "thank you" card for a card. Although, if within the cards sent, you received gifts or donations, etc., give yourself ample time for grievence, as people will understand, and return the favor of appreciation for those who were there for you during your time of need. A thank you for their generosity and thoughtfulness would reassure them that they were right in believing in the good and love in your family.
2007-03-28 16:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by STEFANIE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry about your father... and no - that does not require a thank you. This is about the only time you can get away without saying thank you when people show you their love. I had a hard time deciding this in a somewhat similar situation but ultimately I decided that people might actually be uncomfortable with getting a thank you card for showing some sympathy. If you run into them soon and it feels right just thank them for the support... it's helped a lot. All the best to you!
2007-03-28 22:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by THATgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people do. But you know, I really don't see the purpose. I can't believe that some people need to be thanked for acting humanely. Consoling someone with gestures of cards and flowers upon the death of a loved one is simply a normal and decent thing to do. Yet, people need a pat on the back for this??? Yikes. That tells a big story about the shallowness of society...pretty darn sad in my books.
Wishing you hope and solace.
Keep well.
2007-03-28 17:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by Rain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessary. This is a time of grief. You may say "thank you" when you see the individuals who send you cards. If you wish, you may send a thank-you or a note to those who have been of particular help, such as with making meals for your family and that sort of thing. Nobody is expecting cards in return for cards; especially at this time.
Take care of your family now, and don't add stress for things such as cards.
I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you find peace and comfort soon.
--Dee
2007-03-28 16:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by Deirdre H 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just about everytime I have sent a sympathy card I have gotten one in return.
2007-03-28 17:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for losing your dear father. Hope you'll find the strength to overcome the loss.
Follow your instincts. You may send some, Thank You cards, others just an email or letter acknowledging receipt.
2007-03-28 17:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by ari-pup 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to send thank-you cards, they understand that you appreciate the cards. But, if there is a funeral, and you have co-workers, friends, neighbors, etc...that help in other ways or send flowers, etc...after everything is over, it would be nice to put a little notice in the local paper thanking everyone who helped you through this difficult time.
2007-03-28 16:51:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
In the Philippines, we sent thank you cards for the sympathy and the condolences extended to the bereaved family.
2007-03-28 16:46:59 · answer #8 · answered by kibbs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really don't have to. However, it might be a nice opportunity to connect with people to share stories. A thank you card is always a nice gesture. Do a few a day. You might be suprised at who you connect with. It may make the next few weeks move by more easily. My condolences.
2007-03-28 19:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by ahzreem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear about your father, may he rest in peace. Yes you should send them a card, they were good enough to remember you family as this sad time. I personally feel we should stop these cards. I feel the families have enough to do. Stay strong and God Bless.
2007-03-28 17:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by lennie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋