my boyfriend just told me that he thought our relationship was basically based around sexual stuff, and that he thought i was using him for his body. how can i show him that i love him for more than that? because i do!
2007-03-28 16:18:17 · 6 answers · asked by Chelsea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hahahahh its usually the other way around... he must be hott! lol umm do sumthing he really likes to do, or try not having any sexual activity for a while, until he asks u for it that way hell notice that ur not in it just for sex u know? buy him a nice gift also and take him out! dont look too obvious though, do little things for him, write him love notes, send him surprise texts that says i love u, i miss u or u make me happy, show him how much u appreciate him for who he is not what he looks like.
Hope i helped!
2007-03-28 16:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm..now that's a "switch" a guy complaining his relationship is based around sexual stuff"...wow..and that You're?? using Him for His body?? lol wow..I'm speechless*
-make a special dinner for two
-get concert tickets to someone he wants to see
-do other things together without sex at all!...
-get a sports event tickets u 2 can spend an afternoon at a ball game?
-write a poem telling him how much you love him
-go see a funny movie together
-leave lil notes for him out of the blue(not all the time)
-spice things up more (without the sex)
GoodLuck*
2007-03-28 16:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to arrange for some special dates, that don't involve the sex part. Sex is great, but if he feels that the romance side of your relationship is little to none, try to do something to boost it. Go for a romantic dinner, a walk through park, anything to increase the time you spend together, that doesn't encourage sex.
2007-03-28 16:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by Spiderman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex/doing anything sexual for a pre-determined period of time and see how things go.
2007-03-28 16:27:31 · answer #4 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait, he said the sex wasn't enough...thats weird...jk
try to take him out to dinner, then ask him to drive you home, and kiss him...thats it...no more no less, a nice 5 second frencher; it will probably leave him wondering
2007-03-28 16:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by dangoinvestor 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont know, how do I fix mine? If you figure it out, email me.
2007-03-28 16:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by nyckib 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋