Im 18, and i have never been on a real date. My last girlfriend we just kinda started a relationship w/o ever going out. Wel i got this girl's number and i dont know anything about her. I wanna know what to do, like how open i should be and where i should take her. i'm thinking a dinner date, or maybe go to a starbucks, or a movie? i dunno, help me much pls
2007-03-28 16:08:59 · 12 answers · asked by pogiboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First dates. Don't put too much pressure on the occasion - something casual like Starbucks is a great idea. Lunch is better than dinner. Do something outside, nothing grandiose. You want to see if there's anything there worth pursuing. You both need to be relaxed as possible and talk to each other. Then you'll know if date 2 is worth the effort.
2007-03-28 16:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by Mark G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to a nice inexpensive place(no fast food) and maybe to starbucks for an after dinner coffee. Dinner and movies are played out get creative with your date and the idea is to have fun. You don't have to get guzzied up or anything comfortable and casual is the way to go.
2007-03-28 23:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait you say you have a girlfriend?? and you want to satart something with the girl you don't know anything about?? well i'm kinda confused.. lets start wd your official gf.. if you want to ask her out in a reall date.. if movie or starbucks ar a dinner date.. you can go to the mall and at dinner, have a dinner date.. you can be 99.9% open to your gf.. cuz she is your gf anyway.. then to your number friend.. maybe not a dinner date yet first if you don't know anything about her.. you can tell her if she wants to go out cuz you want to get to know her better.. but make sure your gf won't know.. you can go to starbucks order some drink and talk to her.. know stuff about her.. but don't tell her anything about your gf just yet.. have fun.. hope i helped.. oh you can be open to her like 50% about you and the rest wait for your chance.. and maybe see who is the best for you.. just an additional..
2007-03-28 23:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by just a girl.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dinner and a movie is always a good bet. Make the movie something nuetral that you will both enjoy. Do's. Show up on time, pay for the night out. Don't smoke unless she does if you do and be honest to her and yourself. Don'ts. show up looking like you just got out of bed and smell like you have ran a marathon. Don't say anything negative about her. Don't treat her as if it is your real first date. Do Have Fun....
2007-03-28 23:14:35 · answer #4 · answered by tazman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all get to know her more. Taking her out is a good thing. that's a start. Once you find a place to hang out. Tell her a little about yourself. Like what foods you like. And what team you like. Then let her talk about a little of herself. Get to know each other one on one. Tell a few cheesy jokes to break the ice. Make her laugh at stuiped joke that you heard your dad tells. Don't go to fancy on the frist date. Coffee or a movie is good. And expact a kiss on the frist date. The rule is never kiss on the frist date
2007-03-28 23:14:33 · answer #5 · answered by Hot asain mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something you like to do so you will be relaxed. If you normally go to Starbucks that might be good. You could go to a street fair or a light dinner first, maybe a restaurant that has outdoor seating. You will be great if you remain a gentleman.
2007-03-28 23:13:41 · answer #6 · answered by Melody 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty much in the same boat.
If you don't know her, I wouldn't do anything too drastic. Maybe just a small dinner date to get to know each-other first. That could help you decide if you would like to be just friends, or go out.
I hope it helps!
2007-03-28 23:13:46 · answer #7 · answered by Nailo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
coffee dinner movie all sound good. u could even do something like dave and busters or a theme park. that way its less casual and u can feel comfortable and talk to each other. make sure to open doors for her.
2007-03-28 23:12:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really,,,,18 and never been on a date, what about dances and sports? hamm,,, just be yourself don't try to hard, it really all about listening and if you do go some place like the movies you don't have to talk or listen. Just enjoy the time together.
2007-03-28 23:11:36 · answer #9 · answered by Mugleedone 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I personally think you should take her to baby's r us because that will let her know that you want to have a kid with her. then you should randomly start making out with her. What you should never do is take it slow with her. Then you should take her to HOOTERS to show her that you are really into hot women. if there is a men HOOTERS out there, you should go there so that you can show her that you are manly enough to be gay.
HAVE FUN
2007-03-28 23:14:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋