we have been chatting online and like messing about with each other and i told her if she keeps her act up she getting a spanking 2morrow lol so how do i go about it in a romantic funny way
2007-03-28 15:46:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make it playful, with plenty of talk. Have her stand in front of you while you tell her what a naughty girl she is and how she deserves to have her bare bottom spanked - but talk teasingly, not harshly or angrily, so that she'll feel encouraged to make sassy remarks like "Oh yeah? You wouldn't dare!" and so on.
Beforehand, agree a safeword she can use if it's genuinely getting more than she can take. (A nonsense word like 'bananas' is best.) When you put her over your knee and bare her bottom make a ceremony of it, taking your time and peeling down her panties quite slowly. Rub and stroke her cheeks, telling her what a lovely bottom she has and how it's going to look even prettier when it begins to blush. Start spanking quite gently, just enough to sting, and pausing often for more rubbing and stroking.
Gradually spank harder, making her wriggle and squeal - but pay close attention to her body language, so you can tell if she's in genuine distress. (True, she has her safeword - but she may feel it's a matter of pride not to use it.) Now and then slip your hand down between her legs and stroke her - she'll probably be getting quite wet. This first time, stop a bit sooner than you'd like to - if she's enjoyed it, with any luck you'll have lots more chances to put her over your knee. Similarly, just spank her by hand the first time - hairbrushes, paddles, etc can come later.
Aftercare's essential - hugs, cuddles, kisses, rubbing her reddened bottom - and, more than likely, some terrific sex. Have fun!
2007-03-28 21:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Try to set the mood immediately by reminding her of your promise to spank her. If you can talk to her before you see her, get her to wear something that makes spanking easier, like a skirt that can be lifted up readily. Once you've started, go slow and easy, building up only if she's obviously able to handle it. If she doesn't like it, stop or slow down. Just because you like it doesn't mean that she will.
Unlike PhilipK, I would focus more on the spanking at first, if you want it to be fun, and move to sexual things towards the end.
2007-03-31 16:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by baka_otaku30 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
2 in the pink, 1 in the stink
2007-03-28 22:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol spanking romantic...that's a new one...Anyway spanking is always in a naughty way..so, be naughty!
2007-03-28 23:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you want to "speak" to her or "spank" her??? either one could be fun
2007-03-28 22:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by ms_debbieg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be asking her this question .
2007-03-28 22:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋