Question for the guys.......?

Question

I am in high school right now, I like someone, and I am a pretty attractive and popular girl, but I think I have the "un-available" label. Its not that I am unavailable, its that I have never really had a relationship before and I think guys see it as a warning sign to not even ask. idk, thats my guess. They probably figure that I rejected everyone when really no one even asks me out or to do things. I just really want someone to ask me to do something to get closer to someone. So how can I let guys know I am available and want them to ask me out without being slutty and coming on too strong? (I'd really like them to ask me and have them make the first move.) Thanks!

Answer 1

Your too closed off. You don't 'act' like a typical girl. So that sends the signal to guys that your unavailable.

1.You need to look around more...look around a lot. As if your looking FOR something around every corner(and you are, a bf).
2. Don't carry around a lot of stuff. No big bag and purse and whatever. That makes you look busy and no time for a guy. 3.Don't hurry around everywhere. Walk slow, linger and take your time. If you zip in and out, not only does a guy not have a chance to get near you..but you again look busy and have no time.
4.Dress up a bit. If you just put on normal clothing, guys won't notice all that much. Trust me if a guy has a choice of looking at a super hot girl in boring clothing that covers her neck to toe, and a ugly girl in a sexy out fit......they will look at the ugly girl every time.
5.When you get with in eye shot of a guy..look at him. Make eye contact, look away, look back. and smile and toss or hair and smile again.


And if you can talk to a guy...you can use the classic trap. Just say you wish you could go see (whatever) movie, play, band, or such. Sound a bit sad you can't go. most guys will jump at the chance to 'save' you and offer to take you.