Well, i think i love this girl. She is a really good friend of mine and i love everything about her. me and her have the same things in common, like Everything, and shes christian, does not cuss, likes the same music i do, i mean perfect for me. The thing is, one of her friends came to me and asked me if i thought she was cute, and i answered yes. I know her friend told her, and now when i hear her talking with other people about me i get the feeling she doesn't like me. But the wierd thing is she still seems like she likes me, and thier is nothing akward between us, even though she might know i like her. I am so confused on what to do, do i tell her, and she say no so our friendship would be akward or just wait it out? What do you guys think?
2007-03-28 15:31:18 · 18 answers · asked by pilotman 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
God has a perfect girl for you and a woman for you to marry. Pray about this and ask God to reveal to you what to do and what girl He has picked out for you. I have found that God knows what is better for me than I do. Pray, pray, pray, until God gives you an answer. He is waiting to give you the desires of your heart...
2007-03-28 15:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by Godb4me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I'm not sure how old you are, so this answer might be a bit off.
If you are old enough to go out, the best thing might be to ask if she might like to see a movie or something with you. The worst that can happen would be that she might say she's not interested. If she's not, you may still be friends.
On the other hand, she might say yes. You have a much better chance of finding out what she's thinking if you simply ask.
2007-03-28 22:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by Deirdre H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to ruin a good friendship is by trying to move into a romantic relationship before both are ready.
Relax! Enjoy the friendship you have, and when or if the relationship becomes more, it will feel normal and natural. Unless you are in your 80's or 90's there is time for a relationship to grow without forcing it.
2007-03-28 23:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by Free To Be Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I refuse to give love advice anymore!! The first question on here I answered , I told a guy to go ahead and give a relationship a try. I emailed him a couple of days ago to see how everything was going. She cheated on him. Good luck.
2007-03-28 22:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by Rosalind S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a hype. Come out of that first. Then if you seriously like her, tell her without fear, but be ready to accept the outcome and move on. Do not waste your time & energy. Rather spend your time & energy to study to become somebody.
2007-03-28 22:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by Raju 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoah buddy! Sounds very exciting! You obvioulsy like her very much. The first thing you should do is pray about it. You want God's will for your life and hers so first seek God's aproval and what he wants. Just talk to him about it. I don't know you or the girl so I can't really say whats best on when to talk to her about liking eachother.
2007-03-28 22:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by spunn_out 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slow, invite her for coffee or Ice Cream, Ice Cream is good, but over thinking the thing will just make you crazy.
it sounds like you have not dated her yet so try it you might like it. and if you let your fears lead you, then you will regret it forever
when the friend ask you if you thought she was cute, was she asking about herself, or the girl that you like?
if she was asking about the girl that you like then her friend might have put her up to it, and is wondering why you have not ask her out..
2007-03-28 22:39:27 · answer #7 · answered by Hannah's Grandpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good things come to those who wait. but if it's dire and it's either tell her something or too akward to stand it, then jump on it. you sound as though you are confident that se likes you, if you are then maybe she just needs you to make the first move.
2007-03-28 22:39:00 · answer #8 · answered by Rocket 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to know and not have to think about it all the time .If she does bones.If not then you can go on with your life.Who knows maybe better.If you are ment to be together then you will.If not not a thing can make it happen.God has his own plan for you you'll see
2007-03-28 22:52:29 · answer #9 · answered by freddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing ventured nothing gained. Go for it and if it doesn't work out, all you have lost is months of agonizing before comming to the same place.
2007-03-28 22:35:22 · answer #10 · answered by Zarathustra 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋